15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy

18 05 2012

Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go:

1. Give up your need to always be right

There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

2. Give up your need for control

Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu

3. Give up on blame

Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk

Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle

5. Give up your limiting beliefs

about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!

“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

6. Give up complaining

Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

7. Give up the luxury of criticism

Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.

8. Give up your need to impress others

Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take off all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

9. Give up your resistance to change

Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it. “Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” Joseph Campbell

10. Give up labels

Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

11. Give up on your fears

Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place. “The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

12. Give up your excuses

Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

13. Give up the past

I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.

14. Give up attachment

This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another,  attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.

15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations

Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves.  You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.





16 Reasons why it’s so Important to Follow your Dreams

1 05 2012

16 Reasons Why It’s So Important To Follow Your Dreams

A Dream, a vision, a goal, a desire, these are all things most of us know we need when we are working towards success but have somewhere along the line, forgotten why it is so important we follow them through.

 

So I have created this list….. Well, lets call it a reminder of why it is so important to follow your dreams.

 

The 16 Reasons Why It Is So Important To Follow Your Dreams

 

1. The secret of living is giving, if you follow your dreams then you will have something worth sharing with others, hope, inspiration and a meaning to live, and that to me, is a great contribution.

2. Chasing your dreams will develop your courage. Courage is your fuel to achieve amazing success in life, follow your dreams and exercise courage. In sure enough time you will be unstoppable.

3. There is a reason why as kids we loved magic and dreams. Stop chasing your dreams and you will forget how it feels to live hopeful and young.

4. Great dreamers grow to be independent, learning that they can make a difference all by themselves.

5. Dreams can distract you from the negative events in life. You will weigh up what is more important, your dreams or the drama. Drama seems obsolete when you are passionate about following your dreams.

6. It gives you something to share and inspire your kids with, you have led by example that anything is possible when you put your mind to it.

7. Through accomplishing your dreams you will come to appreciate the experience of failure and know that failure is just part of success and that it wasn’t really all that bad as it was all worth it in the end.

8. Regret is a terrible thing, and a dream is powerful enough to bring you regret if you don’t take the chance to at least follow it.

9. Because you are never too old to dream. Age means nothing when we know what we want.

10. You become an interesting person, you show others you have meaning, direction and purpose.

11. The unknown of following your dreams may spark a little fear, this is okay though because a little fear is known to make you feel more alive.

12. It is fun proving the world wrong, so why would you follow the status quo?

13. The more you chase and accomplish your dreams the more the lines of the boundaries that the world puts in front of us fade, as we learn that any and everything is possible.

14. When you accomplish your dream, you are the first to see it happen. You can share your accomplishments with the rest of the world but you where there in the front row on a single chair to experience the magic that unfolded.

15. Your dreams have no limits, you are the creator of your dreams, big or small. When this is understood, you are able to design a way to favour you plan and accomplish your end goal.

16. A dream is strong enough to define you, once accomplished you prove to others they have no say in who you can and can’t be.





Articulate: Thinking and Communicating with Clarity and Precision

1 02 2012

“A word to the wise is not sufficient if it doesn’t make sense”
James Thurber

“The limits of my language are the limits of my mind. All I know is what I have words for.”
Ludwig Wittgenstein

“The difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and lightning bug.”
Mark Twain

“We sometimes get all the information, but we refuse to get the message.”
Cullen Hightower

“All my life I wanted to be somebody. But I see now I should have been more specific.”
Jane Wagner

“True eloquence consists of saying all that should be said, and that only.”
Francois de La Rochefoucald

“To communicate, put your words in order; give them a purpose; use them to persuade, to instruct, to discover, to seduce.”
William Safire

. . . everything that can be said can be said clearly.”
Ludwig Wittgenstein

“Be careful of your thoughts; they may become words at any moment.”
Ira Gassen

“It is better to keep one’s mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it

 and resolve all doubt.”
Abraham Lincoln

“The words you choose to say something are just as important as the decision to speak.”
Anonymous

“If you just communicate you can get by. But if you skillfully communicate, you can work miracles.”
Jim Rohn, Speaker and Author

“Wise men talk because they have something to say, fools talk because they have to say something.”
Plato

“Before speaking, consider the interpretation of your words as well as their intent.”
Andrew Alden





How Have I Practiced Resilience in a gifted class? Nate Lanza 5th grade

24 01 2012

Resilience is a great trait to have. If you can bounce back, life will be like an eternal trampoline, so when you fall off the high wire, you will simply bounce back. Early in life, you will fail commonly. However, this can be good. Failing builds resilience. The more you fail, the more resilience you will have. When I first came into a full-time GATE classroom, I started too fail miserably. But I learned from my mistakes.Now, I am getting high grades, all due to resilience. I constructed mytrampoline.

Some people use the material provided by failure to build a concrete landing area instead of a trampoline. Some people act perfectionist,fearing failure so much that they don’t try new things. They walk onto the highwire with all the support they can get, intent on not falling at all. However, ifthey let their support do all the work, they will eventually fall, withcatastrophic results. You need resilience. When I fail, I use it to build my trampoline, an example I hope other people follow.





How Do I Find My Passion? by Lily Brucker 6th grade

24 01 2012

There are many methods of problem solving, but among these is trial and error. Usually brushed aside by less time consuming methods, this can actually be helpful in life. When finding a passion, trial and error is probably more effective than any other mathematical method. Trying many activities, looking up numerous occupations, shines a flashlight in the cave of possibilities. And with that flashlight we find the vein of gold embedded in rock, our passion, waiting to be mined out.





Opening Wings by Lindsay Habig 5th grade

23 01 2012

If one was to understand by creating, they would be the smartest person in the universe. They could read words that had never been written. They could sculpt the impossible and believe in the far away lands. They could climb the highest mountain or dive into the deepest sea. If only memorization would be thrown to the mice and grouse that lived in the damp ally. Then, everybody could be this person. Every soul in the world has grown wings, but many souls don’t know how to fly. This person does. Forget the memorizing and reciting. It strips away the questions of the minds and allows blankness to take its place. Many people fall into this trap, but the talented ones, the ones who realize the use of their wings, they are able to fly out. No matter the profession, everyone still has wings, slowly unfolding, just waiting to fly.





The Importance of Passion by Billy Feehan 6th grade

23 01 2012

Life is like climbing a mountain or walking across a plain.

With no passion it’s dull and boring but passion adds motion to the still photo of life.

Climbing a mountain is amazing with the view,

walking across a plain is amazing with the vast sky and the endless stars.

Nothing great the world has been accomplished with out passion.

Be passionate about what you do and enjoy doing it





Free at Last (Reflections on Martin Luther King) by Venec Miller 6th grade

16 01 2012

“Free at last, Free at last!”

Martin Luther King Junior’s words rang out like a song jay, echoing through people’s minds, Negros and whites alike, for many years after. They rang like steel on steel, a battle call. They had the poetic flow of Poe, Frost, and many others. They showed the complexity of a wise old man, and the youthful enthusiasm of a young man living his passion.

King pointed out the harsh heat of hatred in Birmingham, Alabama, and Detroit. At the same time, however, he sowed and watered the seeds of the United States of America, the real one, not just the U.S.A. He filled the citizens with hope, and shook a stable social system from its nice concrete casing. He riveted not only the United States, but also the whole world.

These words gave thousands, millions, even billions of people hope. These words permanently changed the history of the world. These words make up one of the most influential speeches of the world.





Quotes to Motivate: Passionate-Ignite Your Enthusiasm

3 01 2012

The most beautiful experience in the world is the experience of the mysterious. He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead; his eyes are closed.”                                              Albert Einstein

“Practice being excited.”
Bill Foster

“Nothing great in the world has been accomplished without passion.”
George Hegel

“Your work is to discover your work, and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.”                                Buddha

“I would rather live in a world where my life is surrounded by mystery than live in a world so small that my mind could comprehend it.”
Harry Emerson Fosdick

“You only lose energy when life becomes dull in your mind. Your mind gets bored and therefore tired of doing nothing . . . . Get interested in something! Get absolutely enthralled in something! Get out of yourself! Be somebody! Do something . . The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“People do their best work when they are passionately engaged in what they are  doing”                                                                                Erie S. Raymond

“There is real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“Wonder rather than doubt is the root of knowledge.”
Abraham Joshua Heschel

“Once you do something you love, you never have to work again.”
Willie Hill, student

“Follow your bliss. Find where it is and don’t be afraid to follow it.”
Joseph Campbell

“All thinking begins with wondering”
Socrates

“I would sooner live in a cottage and wonder at everything than live in a castle and wonder at nothing!”                                                                                                                                                Joan Winmill Brown

“We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration. Inspiration seldom generates action.”
Frank Tibolt, Author

“I want to be excited, thrilled, and ecstatic about all sorts of things as long as I live.”
Win Couchman, Writer and Speaker

“One thing life has taught me: If you are interested, you never have to look for new interests. They come to you. When you are genuinely interested in one thing, it will always lead to something else.”
Eleanor Roosevelt

“Wonder is what sets us apart from other life forms. No other species wonders about the meaning of existence or the complexity of the universe or themselves.”
Herbert W. Boyer

I think that nothing awakens us to the reality of life so much as a true passion.                                                  Vincent Van Gogh

I wonder. I wonder why I wonder. I wonder why I wonder why I wonder.                                                     Richard Feynman





It’s about Time (Creativity for 2012)

1 01 2012

It’s about Time

by Robert Bishop (based on an idea by Joel Barker)

Here is a story for those who have more than a passing interest in time.

About 400 years ago there was a battle over time.  You see, it was around the 1600′s when the first pocket watch was introduced.  Now people had time on their hands. But there were many who thought clocks were meant to be in towers, not in trousers. Perhaps it was because the first model was the size and shape of a lemon.  For the stylish gentleman this meant the convenience of knowing the precise time but did create a rather unsightly bulge in his trousers.

As time passed, it became the fashion to spend time designing thinner watches.  Watch designers worked around the clock and even put in overtime in this race against time to create the thinnest watch.  By the 1700′s the French and British compressed the timepiece to 1 ½ inches thick. One hundred years later they squeezed the mechanism to ¾ of an inch.  By 1850 manufacturers bottomed out at ¾ of an inch.  You could say they were pressed for time.  Surprisingly this is still the thickness of most watches today.

As thinness reached its limit, the watch industry started to rotate the crank turning the gears of price and performance; lower price, more accuracy, lower price, more accuracy.  But, like clockwork, a new battle was about to begin.  It was only a matter of time when the pendulum would swing to a new battlefront.

Allow me to explain. Before WWII the Swiss owned 90% of the watch market.  And even up to 1968 they still enveloped most of the world market share.  But time was running out for the Swiss. In ten years their corner on the market plummeted to almost nothing and they even had to release most of their workers.  This was the original time release formula of downsizing.  What happened?  What time bomb hit the Swiss?  They themselves were enveloped and wrapped up in their old way of thinking. You might say that they were stitched in time.

A new nation soon dominated the watch making industry.  In the past this nation was unknown for watches.  But now Japan led the watch industry.  How could the Swiss,who controlled watch making for the entire 20th century, known for excellence and innovation, experience such a timely demise?  Were they just killing time?  What was the key to the failure of the Swiss and the success of Japan?

The answer was profoundly simple.  The Swiss were put back to ground zero by a paradigm shift — a paradigm gear shift. Many of you are wearing this paradigm shift on your wrist right now if you took time to put them on.  The quartz movement watch is totally electronic using only one moving part. It is one thousand times more accurate, more versatile and even thinner than the mechanical watch.

Who made time to invent this wonderful idea of using Quartz crystals for time keeping? Some of you already know the answer. The Quartz crystal watch was invented by the Swiss themselves in Neuchatel at their research laboratories. But when the researchers presented this idea to their manufacturers they were closed to the idea.  Their minds were locked. How did the              engineers feel about this rejection?

I bet it really ticked them off.

I bet they really wanted to clean their clock.

They may have heard the manufacturers say these timeless killer phrases:

“It doesn’t have any gears to mesh with what we havealways done,”

“We don’t have time for this,”

“This won’t wind up anywhere,”

“What a waste of time,”

“It just doesn’t tick.”

So confident were they, so locked in their mental box– in their “parabox.” They didn’t protect their idea.

They were not watching out for the possible time change.

They must have been “half past” out.

Texas instruments of America and Seiko of Japan took one look and the rest was history.

You see, they made the time.

For them it was good time management, perfect timing.

Time was definitely on their side.

They were having the time of their lives.

They were on a Roll……ex.

But for the Swiss . . . they had no time share in this.

And now they were living on borrowed time.

Things were winding down.

Soon their time would be up.

Yes, they were out of time.

They couldn’t beat the clock.

They took a licking, and kept on ticking.

They virtually disappeared from the marketplace.  They were locked in their old way of thinking — in a box, in a time capsule.  They refused to set their clocks to one of the biggest changes in the history of timekeeping. They were trying to make time stand still.  But you can’t turn back the clock when times change.  The rules had changed.  Not even the best watchmakers of the world could stop time.  They couldn’t call time out to progress.

There is a message here for all of us for all time that will help us remember the moral of this timely parable . . . that will help us be more clockwise. Don’t let old timeworn paradigms imprison your ideas in a box like serving time in a prison cage!! We need to break through the walls to create new ideas and not be behind the times. Only then can we spring open the doors to the future and get outside of the paradigm box!!!





The Christmas Story (The Truth Behind the Tinsel)

24 12 2011

In the book, God with Us, John MacArthur gives two philosophies that are stealing Christmas. One danger is the tendency to secularize Christmas; to make it an excuse for parties and self-indulgence and not consider at all the significance.  The other danger is the effort to mythologize Christmas by embellishing the simple Christmas story with legends of talking animals and confusing fantasy.  If you were from a foreign land or from another planet, what message would you gather on the meaning of Christmas?  Could you get the story straight, even from Christians?

 

We must remember that Joseph, Mary, the shepherds, Herod, and the Magi were real people.  They were real people playing significant roles in the story of God becoming man.  But truth has always been more surprising than fiction or fantasy.  The truth behind the tinsel of Christmas is that the best gift was wrapped in an unexpected package.  Behind the tinsel of Christmas is the simple truth – that amidst the noisy shoppers, past the glitter, beneath the candy canes and colored stockings, under the printed foil wrappings, shadowed by the jolly smile of Santa and even behind the spirit of giving – behind the tinsel – is the truth of a simple story of a child born in a straw-littered stable.

 

The truth is profound in its simplicity.  Within it lies the miracle that all our hearts yearn.  God chose to visit us in a form that we could understand.  God revealed Himself in a human being.  God revealed the secrets of heaven and accomplished the mission of salvation in an unexpected way.  God visited us in an unexpected way (in a manger) and accomplished salvation in an unexpected way (on a cross).  God came as a child. He humbly left His throne to die to be our Savior.  This is the simple and profound truth behind the tinsel.

 

What if we could return to that first Christmas, to the time of the birth of Jesus?  Would we be disappointed?  We can piece a lot of the story together from Scripture and other historians.  From the books of Matthew and Luke and other historians I would like to share the simple story of Christmas.  You may be surprised that the truth could be more exciting and profound than the tinsel.

 

Listen to the truth behind the tinsel . . .

 

The labor pangs of pregnancy were at their final stages.  The long awaited arrival was causing anxiety.  It was the fullness of time – time itself was pregnant.  God has prepared the whole of history like the stage of a cosmic theater production for His own physical birth.  God chose the time He would be born on earth.  He chose the proper time when history was ready.  The language was common, travel was easy, peace ruled but hearts were begging for a Redeemer to save them from the hollowness of pagan religions.  And so it was that God had set the stage to prepare for the curtain to open and for God Himself to make His entrance.

 

The Roman Empire had stretched its control to become one of the largest empires this world had ever seen.  It had proudly announced that the entire known world was within its grasp.  This powerful empire had little concern about a tiny finger of land on the eastern shore of the Mediterranean Sea, the land of Palestine.  The only concern was to make this land called Judea part of the Empire – to swallow it up into the power of Rome.  Two of the most important steps to take Judea into the grip of the Emperor Caesar Augustus were these:

 

The first was that Caesar would heavily tax the people to press them in line with the rest of the Empire.

 

The second was to transfer the power of judicial execution (the power of life and death) from the Jews to the Roman Empire. To the world these steps seemed unfair or perhaps insignificant.  But from the decrees of this godless emperor, God’s plan would be accomplished.

 

Because of those two decrees Christ would be born in prophesied city and would die in a prophesied way.  Caesar had no way to knowing that his decrees would fulfill the 800-year-old prophecy that Bethlehem was the city where the Messiah would be born and crucifixion on a cross would be the manner in which this Messiah would die.

 

History would take a peculiar twist.  Few would remember Caesar Augustus who was worshiped as a god in Rome.  His name would forever be shadowed by a child to be born during his reign, in a rundown section of his more obscure providence behind an old inn among some cow flops and moldy hay.

 

So Caesar Augustus sent his decree from Rome to the distant land of Palestine which was governed by the self-acclaimed Herod the Great.  Now this was a strange sort of man.  He called himself a Jew, but he hated the Jews and the Jews hated him.  He had an extravagant hobby of architecture and even had the great Jewish temple rebuilt in Jerusalem.  This was to promote himself rather than the Jews, and obviously not God.  He probably reinterpreted Caesar’s edict of taxation to make it sound like a patriotic duty instead of a foreign order.  To return to one’s hometown and see relatives was probably Herod’s idea to make the order more attractive and more easily obeyed.

 

So it was that the roads were busily crowded with travelers returning to their hometown.  A poor carpenter and his pregnant fiancée traveling from Nazareth now enter the story.  It was a three-day journey to Jerusalem and then a two-hour walk to the obscure town of Bethlehem.

If you were Joseph, what might be on your mind?

 

Joseph had endured a deep inner struggle.  He had just finished making the most difficult decision of his life.  The sequence of events is unclear from Scripture as to whether Joseph heard that his fiancée was pregnant before or after her visit to her cousin, Elizabeth.  The shock was the same – his fiancée, the woman he loved, was pregnant.  He must have thought the story of a Holy Spirit causing conception was a bit too much!

 

Joseph was a righteous man and this whole situation was a very embarrassing dilemma.  To marry her now would dishonor God.  The ancient law in Deuteronomy prescribed that a woman pregnant outside of marriage should be put to death by stoning.  Had they been living in the time of Moses, Mary would have been immediately stoned.  But because of the laxness in the Jewish theocracy and the infiltration of Roman law, Joseph had two other options.  He could make her an example in a public court.  Thus, she would be shamed and have a destroyed reputation the rest of her life.  The other choice was to quietly write a bill of divorce.

 

You see, every Jewish couple desiring marriage would be betrothed for a 12-month period to prove their fidelity.  If any unfaithfulness or problems surfaced, these problems could be resolved before the marriage was consummated.  Evidently Joseph had discovered Mary’s unfaithfulness but still deeply loved her.  Joseph chose the more merciful way to sever the relationship – a quiet divorce.

 

And then an angel appeared to Joseph and gave him an unexpected and unheard-of command.  This command would break tradition and probably cause both Mary and Joseph to be the brunt of mockery for the rest of their lives.

 

The angel said to take Mary as his wife because what was conceived in her was from the Holy Spirit.  The angel even told him the child would be a boy, what the child’s name would be, and what this child would do with His life.

If you were Mary, what might be on your mind?

 

Mary had just returned from a three-month visit with her cousin, Elizabeth.  Both Mary and Elizabeth had a common situation.  Elizabeth was a barren old woman disgraced and humiliated all her life and suspected of some hidden sin because she could not have children.  As you can imagine Mary was also the object of gossip.  You see, both Mary and Elizabeth had something in common.  Both were surrounded by the chatter of gossip and both were miraculously pregnant.

 

The writer, Doctor Luke, tells of their time together.  It was a time of consoling each other, praising God and waiting for their husbands to understand that the Lord works in unconventional ways.  To make matters more unbelievable, to the Jewish mind God did not work through women.

 

But God’s plan weaved four other surprising women into the genealogic listing of the Messiah:

 

Tamar – who dressed as a prostitute and conceived two sons (Perez & Zerah) from a shameful act of harlotry and incest.

Rahab – a Canaanite prostitute who helped Joshua win the battle of Jericho.

Ruth – A Moabite who became a Jew.

Bathsheba – the woman who David committed adultery with.

 

And now Elizabeth is pregnant with the one who will announce the coming of the Messiah. And Mary, a pregnant fiancée of a poor carpenter, is ready to give birth to the Son of God.  God is saying; “Watch out, for I work in unexpected ways.”

 

But strangely enough, the prophet Isaiah spelled out how the Messiah would enter this world.  “Behold a virgin shall conceive and bear a son and His name shall be called … Emmanuel.”

 

This was a clarification of a previous prophecy made outside of the Garden of Eden.  God pronounced the curse on the serpent by saying; “I will put enmity between you and the woman and between your seed and her seed.”  The only time in Scripture where the seed of a woman is mentioned … hinting something special.

 

Perhaps Mary and Joseph were mulling and pondering these events as they traveled the road to Bethlehem.  We do not know how they traveled.  Tradition says she was on a borrowed donkey as he walked.  It would be common for a poor family to borrow a donkey, especially for a woman almost in her labor. But the irony of this is that a few hours before birth Jesus would humbly enter the city of Jerusalem on a borrowed donkey and that a few days before death Jesus would enter triumphantly into Jerusalem on another borrowed donkey.

 

So this couple with hearts filled with wonder passed through Jerusalem and then south to Bethlehem.

 

Why Bethlehem?

 

Yes, it was the decree by the proud emperor in Rome reinterpreted by the Jew-hating Herod. Possibly Joseph and Mary desired to escape the gossiping tongues of the people of Nazareth.  But more importantly, it was to fulfill an obscure prophecy made eight centuries earlier in the book of Micah foretelling that this was the place the Messiah would be born.

 

Without knowing it, all these people were running an errand for God – the most important errand for the Lord of Heaven.

 

Bethlehem means “house of bread.” and Bethlehem was, indeed, as insignificant as a dry loaf of bread.  But this unexpected town was the place God chose to accomplish His will.

 

Ironically, 1500 years later this small village would run an insane asylum at the Monastery of St. Mary’s.  For a small admission price people would actually go to heckle the inmates.  In time, the name St. Mary of Bethlehem would be shortened to Bethlehem and pronounced….bedlam.  And in time the word “bedlam” came to refer to the noise and confusion that symbolized the insane asylum.  The name that once explained the peaceful village where Jesus was born now described the anxiety, stress and mindless scurrying around people feel at Christmastime.

 

It might have been bedlam in Bethlehem that night since many travelers crowded the streets.  As Joseph and Mary entered Bethlehem, Joseph’s hometown, why did they seek an inn?  There is a possibility that Joseph had rented out his house or that his family had died or could not be found in all the bedlam.   But most likely Mary was in her final stage of labor and they needed a place quickly.

 

An inn during that time was most undesirable – a low-class tavern and flop house.  It could have just been a house opened by its owner to take advantage of all the census travelers.  The Bible makes no mention of an innkeeper, but apparently Joseph asked someone.  Perhaps the owner thought a woman giving birth was not good for inn business.  In any case, the couple was rejected.  There was no room for the presence of God. It should not strike us strange because even today most people do not have room for God in their preoccupied lives.

 

They found refuge in a nearby stable – a rough wooden lean-to or small cave – just basic protection from the elements, fit for animals.  No hot water, no heat, no light, no pain killers, no doctors, no midwife.  While most in the city were enjoying the reunion of families, Joseph sat in a corral which reeked of manure.  As most were rejoicing, Mary was suffering in a hay-filled stable giving birth to a baby.

 

Then in the darkness of the stable a new sound was heard.  For the first time deity expressed sounds directly through a human body.  The sound of crying is the natural sound from a baby that is fully human.  It was the sound of a baby that God chose to speak through.  And those hands that had fashioned the universe were now the tiny helpless hands of a newborn baby.  God packed in a baby.  God in a manger.  They laid Him in swaddling clothes.  Those strips of cloth were probably one of the few comforts this child had as the couple laid there on coarse straw.

 

If you were a mother you may wonder why Mary stopped holding her newborn.  In a dark, smelly stable one might have held the newborn.  But the reason why she put Him in a feeding trough was to be a sign – a clue – for a group of people soon to enter the scene.

 

You see, that same night there were shepherds watching their sheep.  The sheep near town were raised for only one purpose – for sacrifices.  Little did they know that a baby born that night would be The Sacrificial Lamb that would take away the sins of the world.  This would fulfill their heart’s desire and also ruin their occupation.  You see, raising sacrificial sheep was the most worthy activity shepherds could do.  Otherwise shepherds were seen as despised, untrustworthy, incompetent, and personified filth.  To buy wool, milk or anything from them was forbidden because it was assumed it was stolen.  They were unclean people.  The rabbis constantly struggled with the dilemma of the despicable nature of shepherds and why God was called “My Shepherd” in Psalm 23.

 

 

But it was to these outcasts, in the context of religious snobbery and class prejudice that God again broke his 400-year silence.  God spoke to Zechariah to tell him of the son he would have; God spoke to Mary, to Joseph and now to shepherds.  And fitting it was to have shepherds first hear of the birth of the Savior.  For the Prophet Micah foretold that out of Bethlehem would come a ruler who would shepherd His flock in the strength of the Lord and in the majesty of the name of the Lord.

 

 

And so it was that an angel appeared to these shepherds and told them the Savior had just been born.  The angel was joined by a heavenly army of angels who praised God by saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men.”

 

There is no mention of angels singing here.  In fact only twice in the Word do angels sing.  They sang at creation before Adam sinned, mentioned in the book of Job and they will sing when history culminates, mentioned in the book of Revelation.

 

The angel gave the shepherds only one clue to find the Christ “He would be wrapped in cloth and lying in a manger.” The shepherds were so excited they left their flock and hurried off to find this treasure.

 

Could it be that these filthy people disgusted the city people?  Or could they have just blended in the crowd?  But they entered the city seeking their Savior with little thought of what they left behind and what people thought.  How they found the infant with the clues they received is difficult to imagine.  But they found Mary and Joseph and the baby.  They found what they sought because they sought with their whole heart.

 

The shepherds left and spread the word around the city of what they had found.  They praised God, excited about what they had seen.  But Mary treasured these things in her heart.  That little town of Bethlehem was probably so busy in their activities that even the voices of the shepherds were given no mind to.

 

Eight days later, when it was time to circumcise the child, He was properly named.  It was then that He was given the name that Joseph had been told to give Him.  The name was a testimony to God’s salvation.  He was called Joshua, Jehoshua (Jehovah will save) … Jesus.  This child would save the people from their sins and would restore fellowship with God.

 

Joseph and Mary were devoted Jews who followed all the legal customs of the Law.  Perhaps it was because they had a high priest, Zechariah, and a godly woman like Elizabeth in the family. So about a month later they traveled to Jerusalem for Mary to be purified after giving birth and to offer a sacrifice as a consecration of their first-born.

 

It was then that two elderly people spotted Him.  Years before, Simeon was told that he would not die till he had seen the Messiah, and time was running out.  When the moment came, one look through his cataract lenses was all it took.  He saw in this child the fulfillment of the promised salvation … and pain.  The old widow, Anna, also recognized this Messiah wrapped in a baby.

 

While most did not realize what was happening, two devout people recognized and worshiped God even when He was packaged as a baby.  And there were others yet to come.

 

Mary and Joseph and the God-child journeyed back to Bethlehem and found lodging in a house.  Little did they know that an incredible incident would happen in Jerusalem.

 

About two years later a parade of Magi entered the city of Jerusalem.  These men were masters of science, religious disciples, and astrology.  Their teachings became known as “the law of the Medes and the Persians.”  They were the mathematicians, philosophers, doctors and legal authorities of their culture.  From their name, Magi, comes the term magic (representing the wizardry, sorcery and soothsaying they performed) and the term magistrate (representing the authority and power they had).  These Magi, government officers from Persia, had the duty to choose and elect the King of the realm.  These Magi were not kings but, rather, King-makers.  They entered the city on Persian steeds or Arabian horses with the force of all the imaginable oriental pomp and adequate cavalry escort.

 

Herod’s small army was probably still on duty with the census so this was no time for an invasion.  And worse, Herod was on his deathbed.  He had long feared that the oriental forces were planning a revolt against the Empire.  All of Jerusalem was probably alarmed by their presence. They came to see Herod to ask him a question.  “Where is the One who has been born King of the Jews?  We saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.”  Being wise astrologers and knowledgeable in Jewish Scripture they followed the star.  No one knows what this star was, but it was most likely a manifestation of the Shekinah glory of God directing these Magi just as Moses was led by a pillar of fire to the Promised Land.

 

Herod’s paranoia was legendary.  He had killed two of his ten wives, three of his sons, and a brother for fear they desired to steal the throne from him.  Herod was insulted that another would seek to take his throne.  In agitation he asked all the Jewish priests where this Messiah King was supposed to be born.  It took a crazed pagan King to get these so-called holy priests to search the Scriptures.  They discovered that Bethlehem was the place.  He told the Magi to check things out so he could worship this king.  Even the priests could see through this lie.

 

These Magi entered Bethlehem and found the house where the child was.  They gave Him gifts – strange gifts for a child and strange for a king.

 

Gold – Something valuable, showing great honor.

Frankincense – Incense used in medicine, healing, and to

preserve the potency of other perfumes.

Myrrh – A liquid used for embalming purposes.

 

The gold for the valued life, the frankincense for the healing He would bring, the myrrh would be given again later mixed with vinegar when He would die on a cross and also to use as glue in the burying process.

 

Amazingly this King was recognized and worshiped by foreign astrologers and rejected by His own.  When the Magi did not return to Herod, he was angered.  He sent an edict to slaughter all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old or younger.  Fortunately Joseph had a dream that warned them to flee to Egypt which would yet fulfill another prophecy made hundreds of years earlier.

 

The streets were filled with tears and wailing as children were slaughtered to please the desperate, paranoid Herod. Little did Herod know that he again fulfilled the words of the prophet Jeremiah when he spoke of the Babylonians who captured the people of Jerusalem and marched them past Rachel’s tomb in the area called Ramah. There was great sorrow in each incident.  Rachael died giving birth to Benjamin, but her death was not without purpose – Israel would rise again.  There was hope even during this time of sorrow.

 

These slaughtered children in Bethlehem were the first casualties of a cosmic war that would focus around one person – the person of Jesus Christ.  It would be 30 years later that Herod’s son would meet this Christ face to face.  But again God’s purpose would be accomplished when Jesus would die and rise again to become the Savior.

 

After Herod the Great died, Joseph and Mary returned to Nazareth.  Nazareth was a crude, small town which had the reputation that nothing good could come from it.  The Messiah was raised here to further place Him under the scorn of His own people and thus fulfill the prophecy that said He was despised by His own.

 

So behind the tinsel of Christmas is the truth of…..

 

A peasant carpenter father

 

A woman pregnant out of wedlock

 

A moldy shelter as a birthing room

 

A motley group of despised shepherds

 

 

An army of pagan astrologers

 

A fugitive family running from a crazed King

 

A child raised in the slums of Nazareth

 

 

But God chose to enter history as a fragile human child who later, in the prime of life, would suffer and die for the sins of the world.  It all started in a manger, a surprise package – the love of God wrapped in a baby named Jesus.  Matthew says, “You shall call Him Immanuel which means God with us.”

 

So you see, the truth behind the tinsel is not the presents under a brightly lit tree, but God’s presence in a dim-lit stable.  The truth behind the tinsel is that the secret of Christmas is not giving but receiving the gift of salvation.

 

 

Next Time It Will Be Different

The First Time Jesus Came:

He came veiled in the form of a child.

A star marked His arrival.

Wise men bought Him gifts.

There was no room for Him.

Openly a few attended His arrival.

He came as a baby.

The Next Time Jesus Comes:

He will be recognized by all.

Heaven will be lit by His glory.

He will bring rewards for His own.

The world won’t be able to contain His glory.

Every eye shall see Him.

He will come as sovereign King and Lord of all.





14 Easy Ways to Get Insanely Motivated

20 12 2011

These simple strategies will keep you energized through the holidays and well into the new year.

By Geoffrey James | @Sales_Source | Dec 19, 2011

It’s getting toward the end of the year, so with the holidays in sight, I thought it appropriate to give you all a little gift: a column that I guarantee will make you more  successful in the coming year.

Here are 14 quick strategies to get and keep yourself motivated:

1. Condition your mind. Train yourself to think positive thoughts while avoiding negative thoughts.

2. Condition your body. It takes physical energy to take action. Get your food and exercise budget in place and follow it like a business plan.

3. Avoid negative people. They drain your energy and waste your time, so hanging with them is like shooting yourself in the foot.

4. Seek out the similarly motivated. Their positive energy will rub off on you and you can imitate their success strategies.

5. Have goals–but remain flexible. No plan should be cast in concrete, lest it become more important than achieving the goal.

6. Act with a higher purpose. Any activity or action that doesn’t serve your higher goal is wasted effort–and should be avoided.

7. Take responsibility for your own results. If you blame (or credit) luck, fate or divine intervention, you’ll always have an excuse.

8. Stretch past your limits on a daily basis. Walking the old, familiar paths is how you grow old. Stretching makes you grow and evolve.

9. Don’t wait for perfection; do it now! Perfectionists are the losers in the game of life. Strive for excellence rather than the unachievable.

10. Celebrate your failures. Your most important lessons in life will come from what you don’t achieve. Take time to understand where you fell short.

11. Don’t take success too seriously. Success can breed tomorrow’s failure if you use it as an excuse to become complacent.

12. Avoid weak goals. Goals are the soul of achievement, so never begin them with “I’ll try …” Always start with “I will” or “I must.”

13. Treat inaction as the only real failure. If you don’t take action, you fail by default and can’t even learn from the experience.

14. Think before you speak. Keep silent rather than express something that doesn’t serve your purpose.

The above is based on a conversation with Omar Periu, one of the world’s best (and best known) motivational speakers.

Geoffrey James

Geoffrey James is an award-winning journalist and author of Inc.com’s Sales Source column. Previously, he wrote Sales Machine, the world’s most-visited sales-oriented blog. James has written hundreds of articles on sales and marketing for publications like Technology Marketing and SellingPower, and has helped thousands of sales professionals communicate more effectively with customers. To get column updates, sign up for his “insider” newsletter (weekly) or his @Sales_Source Twitter feed (daily). James’ newly published book is How to Say It: Business to Business Selling.





How Can I Practice Metacognition Skills in School? by Dillon Towner 5th grade

14 12 2011

Metacognition is important in school and in life.

Without it you would be stumbling through the river of time, never thinking, never realizing what your actions might cause.

With metacognition you realize what you are doing, what you are thinking, what influence you have on others.

You can brighten someone’s day by being kind, or empathizing with them.

“If you don’t daydream and kind of plan things out in your imagination you never get there. You have to start some place.”

This is a quote by Robert Duvall that is important for learning and for life.





How can you dare to dream? by Ciera Johnson 6th grade

14 12 2011

A boring life.  Most people fear it.

To avoid that kind of life, you can set goals, keep a journal, and practice persistence. By setting goals you can push yourself to your best possible effort, and so you can obtain the best of the best of your time here on Earth. By keeping a journal, you can write down your thoughts, feelings, and dreams. Without it you could become lost in thought, and not start fresh every day. You do not want to reuse bathtub water every time you need a bath, so you drain it when you are done, and refill it when the time comes.

Finally, by practicing persistence you can follow up on your dreams and not let anyone say that they are impossible, or that you will not follow up on them. As a result, you can avoid a boring and dull life by dreaming big.

As Rachel Carson once declared, “I won’t be labeled as average.”

By setting goals, keeping a journal, and practicing persistence. You do not have to be an ordinary person anymore, but a new generation of being extraordinary.





Humorous Statements that Make you Wonder, Laugh or Say “Ouch”!!

13 12 2011

To the Critics- —loosen up    To the Cry babies- toughen up

If you seek a helping hand: there is one at the end of your arm.

Give me ambiguity …. or give me something else.

Some see the glass as half-empty, and some see the glass as half-full.  I see the glass as too big.

Kilometers are shorter than miles.. Save gas, take your next trip in kilometers.

If the shoe fits, get another one just like it.

I almost don’t feel the way I do.

Ignore this message

The bigger they are, the worse they smell.

My watch stopped.  I think I’m down a quartz.

The truth is, Pavlov’s dog trained Pavlov to ring his bell just before the dog salivated.

Sometimes I can’t recall my mental blocks, so I try not to think about it.

I choose toilet paper through a process of elimination.

I went to the Missing Persons’ Bureau.  No one was there.

Question every statement-especially this one

Always do whatever’s next

The 50-50-90 rule: Anytime you have a 50-50 chance of getting something right, there’s a 90% probability you’ll get it wrong.

I forgot to remember but I did remember to forget

I choose toilet paper through a process of elimination.

Consider the mosquito: he doesn’t get a pat on the back…until he goes to work.=

A day without sunshine is like…………..night.

Everyone is born crying….some never outgrow it.

You know when you are rocking in a rocking chair, and you go so far that you almost fall over backwards, but at the last instant you catch yourself?   That’s how I fell all the time.

You know how it is when you’re reading a book and falling asleep, you’re reading…reading..and all of a sudden you notice your eyes are closed?  I’m like that all the time.

You know how it is when you go to be the subject of a psychology experiment, and nobody else shows up, and you think maybe that’s part of the experiment?  I’m like that all the time..

The sun got confuse about daylight savings time.  It rose twice.  Everything had two shadows.

I was up all night trying to round off infinity.   Tomorrow I am just going to do half of infinity.

You know how it is when you’re walking up the stairs, and get to the top, and you think there’s one more step?  I’m like that all the time.

I made wine out of raisins so I wouldn’t have to wait for it to age.

A friend of mine once sent me a post card with a picture of the entire planet Earth taken from space.  On the back it said, AWish you were here.

One night I walked home very late and fell asleep in somebody’s satellite dish. My dreams showed up on TV’s all over the world.

Whenever I think about the past, it brings back so many memories.

My watch is three hours fast, and I can’t fix it.  So I’m going to move to New York.

I was trying to daydream, but my mind kept wandering.

I went to the store and bought some blank cassette tapes, when I got home I put one in my cassette deck and turned it up full blast. My neighbor called up and complained about the noise…he’s a mime.

There’s a pizza place near where I live that sells only slices.  In the back you can see a guy tossing a triangle in the air.

I have the oldest typewriter in the world.  It types in pencil.

I bought a dog the other day… I named him Stay.  It’s fun to call him…”Come here, Stay!  Come here, Stay!”  He went insane.

I got an answering machine for my phone.  Now when I’m not home and somebody calls me up, they hear a recording of a busy signal.  I like to leave messages before the beep.

I just got our of the hospital. I was in a speed reading accident.  I hit a book mark and flew across the room.

I’m writing a book.  I’ve got the page numbers done, so now I just have to fill in the rest.

I replaced the headlights in my car with strobe lights, so it looks like I’m the only one moving.

I bought a million lottery tickets.  I won a dollar.

I put instant coffee in a microwave oven and almost went back in time.

I bought a portable cable TV.

I got a garage door opener.  It can’t close.  Just open.

I went to 7-11 and asked for a 2 x 4 and a box of 3 x 5′s.  The clerk said “ten-four”

A metaphor is like a simile.

In school, every period ends with a bell.  Every sentence ends with a period.  Every crime ends with a sentence.

I took a course in speed waiting.  Now I can wait an hour in only ten minutes.

I went to a restaurant that serves “breakfast at anytime.”  So I ordered French Toast during the Renaissance.

The brain is a wonderful organ; it starts working the moment you get up in the morning and doesn’t stop until you get to work.

It doesn’t matter what temperature the room is, it’s always room temperature.

Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time.

Hermits have no peer pressure.

Right now I’m having amnesia and deja vu at the same time.  I think I’ve forgotten this before.

Is it weird in here, or is it just me?

If you put pasta shells to your ear, can you hear the soup?

Early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.

When everything’s coming your way, you’re in the wrong lane.

Hard work pays off in the future. Laziness pays off now.

Everyone has a photographic memory.  Some don’t have film.

Energizer Bunny arrested, charged with battery.

Eagles may soar, but weasels don’t get sucked into jet engines.

Mental backup in progress- Do not Disturb.

When I’m not in my right mind, my left mind gets pretty crowded.

I used to have an open mind but my brains kept falling out.

Why do psychics have to ask for your name?

If at first you don’t succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried.

Experience is something you don’t get until just after you need it.

For every action, there is an equal and opposite criticism.

Black holes are when the universe divides by zero.

Success always occurs in private, and failure in full view

I just got lost in  thought….it was unfamiliar territory.

Someday we’ll look back on this and plow into a parked car.





How can I develop metacognition (reflection) skills? by Ryan Quinn 5th grade

12 12 2011

If I was stranded in the desert of life right now, with only a few meager tools, expected to reach the oasis of metacognition, it would be quite simple to make it there.

A sharp stick of practice could help dig for water of staying on track. A stone of perspective could assist in realizing what life is like for the food I could find in the desert, which is crucial to develop metecognition. Most importantly, I would need to learn from what I do, and reflect on what I did. If I stepped on a cactus of discouragement, I would reflect on that and say “Don’t do that again.”

With these tools I could develop my way to the lush oasis of metacognition, by reflecting, practicing, and using perspective. “I cannot teach anyone anything, I can only make them think,” Socrates.





A Resolution to Success by Lindsey Habig 5th grade

12 12 2011

The many keys of success do not rely on one’s ability to try. Learning teaches more than successful grades. It leads you much farther than just achieving those grades. As Abraham Lincoln once proclaimed, “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing.”  Developing productive habits now, will determine a moderate slice of your future.

I will get the most I can out of my life, by keeping my brain challenged and active.

To do this, I will improve my expertise in all subjects and achieve my most complex goals. Because of the successful learning I am given, I am able to consummate almost anything I perform.

By using persistence, attentiveness, deliberateness, and flexibility, I am able to strive for beyond the top of the highest mountain peak.

My goals always have a higher standard, but one that I can still reach.

I will put superfluous amounts of effort and time into my work, while revising everything I create, because it can achieve a higher standard.

This year, and for the rest of my life, I can do more than just try, and although I will never accomplish ”perfect”, I can always achieve “better”.





Hard Work Beats Talent by Lindsey Habig 5th grade

12 12 2011

One must try to stand out and make theirself heard. No one should efface theirself into the crowd, because they will have trouble achieving their dreams. If a person has talent, that talent will never show if they fail to work industriously. Nobody obtains the effrontery of being perfect, or being able to know how to accomplish everything right from the start. It takes 10,000 hours of cerebration until one becomes an expert at their profession. “Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard,” as Tim Notke once proclaimed.

Life does not come in perfect, pint sized amounts, but instead in irregular surges like waves might hit a vulnerable beach. Some days become extensive and protracted, while others come brief and swift. Although gargantuan amounts of work might slow you down, you have the gift of a positive attitude that will fight for the rest of your life. Supercilious people will challenge you from time to time, but you can win them over with persistence, attentiveness, deliberateness, and flexibility. Using these traits, I will definitely become an independent scholar. I will not think of myself as the talented person who does everything perfectly, but instead as the person who works hard when talent fails.





My Dreams by Lindsey Habig 5th grade

11 12 2011

The art of believing dreams

Scorches the sides of my mind

And changes the rhythm of my thoughts

And I, I would want to live my life

Just like my ancestors for years to come

The hard work, the saltwater tears,

The intense burn of the fire

I strive for that life where nobody cares

About a person’s race, personality or epidermis

Where everyone knows only what they need to know

And understands only who they really are

“Genius is eternal patience,” Michelangelo once spilled his thoughts into the air

Leaves only fall if they want to

And walls only crumble if they feel like it

People don’t need to make a living

Everyone does what they love most

Erasers are only used for fixing

Not washing something away

Elements don’t need to separate

They are all one of a kind already

And these dreams mix around in my head

Because they are ready to show

The world what they can really do…

Together.





My Dreams by Venec Miller 6th grade

7 12 2011

The harsh glare of the lights, shining down from the ceiling, the burst of adrenaline as the boy runs down court, victorious in his triumph.

Now, that same boy sends the ball flying toward the basket, only now, he is no boy, he is a man, a man with a purpose, a dream.

………A different boy stays up late:studying.

……….He wishes to change the world.

………Time flies as though a raptor, cutting though the air.

…He is now, too, a man, and thousands of hours later, he begins forming the cure to cancer.

Yet someone else inhabits this world.

He reads books to study for his purpose.

He plays his father.

And yet, he knows this is not enough.

Years later, the boy has the opportunity to say two words.

Two small words that can charge someones life.

He says them: Check Mate.

The basketball player,

……………….. the scholar,

…………………………..the chess master,

…………………………………they all had practice,

………………………………………..they all persisted,

………………………………………………they all had a purpose.

 

They all had a dream.





My Dreams by Ciera Johnson 6th grade

6 12 2011

I dream of families having no fears, hatred, and no negativity, but have peace, love, and care.

A mom somewhere wakes up an crafts an art with food, and the daddy works to put that food in the moms hands, and kids waking up to eat that food that the mom crafted, and that the dad worked so hard for.

A daddy somewhere else wakes up and goes to work, and the mom wakes up muttering complaints about her family and life, slaps together some milk and cereal and goes back to sleep in her smoke covered room and bed. The only child trudges downstairs ignoring the time with messy hair and jeans and shirt he wore yesterday. He stuffs his face with the cereal, then walks across town to school arriving late at fourth period.

The second family lives with with hatred for each other but the first family trusts, loves, and cares for each other. They are thankful for the little things they have, and are proud of how hard they work for it.

I dream that all families act not as the second family, but as the first, the family who loves each other, and is thankful for the little they have.





“Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard” by Nate lanza

2 12 2011

Here is the third installment of talented thoughts by a 5th grade student……

“Hardwork beats talent if talent doesn’t work hard.”-Unknown.

This is very true. If you have talent but don’t work hard to use it, it’s like decapitating yourself.You jump off the precipice of laziness, desiring those few moments of free fall before you hit the hard place at the bottom.

Then, a rock crushes you. If you work hard to use your talent, you won’t be stuck between a rock and a hardplace. You won’t deface your talent. Your ship will become inexorable as it carries you through the sea of life.

Your cannons of hard work will splinter the ships of supercilious people who think that they are more talented thenyou, [but who don’t work hard]. Others who try to follow in your tracks without hard work will fall into the orifice of failure.

You will sail on,untouched and successful.

 

 

How has my writing improved this year?

At the beginning of the year, I was fresh from a fourth-grade class that did little, if any, writing. My sentences were undeveloped, short, and without voice. Reading one of my essays was like hearing a monotone. Now, after being in an environment filled with creative writing, I have picked up knowledge.

It’s like I was in the dark, foreboding, vast belly of a whale that finally spit me out into a coral reef filled with colorful plants and fish. It was like I had a great orifice of dark symmetry inside me, a place where great writingshould’ve been. I didn’t even realize that I was missing so much until it wasfilled in.

Now, I have found the voice inside me. I have been awoken from mydream of voicelessness, and my writing has greatly improved.





Positive Influences by Ryan Quinn

2 12 2011

This is the second of a series of thoughts by my class of 5th and 6th graders

Choosing positive influences early in life is important to develop who a person is as an adult. Let’s say one person chose to have their influence be a slob, never doing school work, only playing video games all day, every day, except when they pull mean pranks on people. A second person chose at a young age to have their influence be a helpful, kind philanthropist who cared for sick and elderly, picked up trash, and helped needy. They would both start to understand their influence’s way of life, and because they always see that influence, they would adapt to their way of life.

The new helpful person would take the high, positive road of life. The beautiful path will lead through the lush forest of optimism, with trees of employment and shrubs of thought out work. This forest road will lead the beautiful lake of success, and the excited person who chose the positive influence can dive in to swim with the fish of enjoyed life.

The other person, however, has taken the low, negative road. This consequently leads to the dead, burnt plain of pessimism, with only a few dead trees of unemployment. The road continues through the barren, ravaged land until the plain stops at the huge, deep precipice of failure.

As the person who chose the negative influence trudges over the dried riverbed of incompletion, they realize they could have been listening to the birds of completion sing their lovely songs. They realize this disaster started with choosing their best friend at a young age. They realize it could be much harder to walk back out of the wasteland and take the high road than if they had taken the positive path at a young age. After all, who wants to stumble over the precipice of failure?

Who wants to end their life when they get old knowing they made no positive accomplishments some one else’s life?

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great,” Mark Twain.





The Treasure of Accuracy by Ryan Quinn

2 12 2011

This is the first of a series of motivational thoughts by 5th and 6th grade students.

 Accuracy: a treasure in life. Anyone can use accuracy, and anyone who does tasks everyday should use it. However, a person has to develop this treasure to use the skill. It lies hidden in a temple, buried in the thick jungle of life.

Those who set out to reach the treasure need a few necessities to make it there. Snapping fingers and saying “Give me accuracy now” won’t give accuracy to a person. They must take a pocket knife of concentration, a rope of optimism, a tent of practice, and a supply kit of encouragement. The knife brings down the jungle beasts of distraction, trying to stop one’s quest to achieve the treasure of accuracy. The rope of optimism swings a seeker across the canyon of doubt. The tent of practice keeps one out of the jungle night, and getting lost in the journey as a consequence. The supply kit of encouragement keeps one from turning back, to keep on track. If someone uses these tools on the quest to develop accuracy, they will certainly succeed.

“If a man is called a streetsweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or as Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and Earth will pause and say, ‘Here lived a streetsweeper who did his job well,’” Martin Luther King Jr.





The Strawberry Story: A Story of Courage

30 11 2011

Here is a story to remind ourselves of the fears we have and the courage we can have. Share this story with your students and children. After the story are some quotes about courage.

 The Strawberry Story

There was a monk who lived in a small village in the jungle with a group of other monks. Each morning this monk would go out into the jungle and gather fruit for the other monks to eat for breakfast. One morning this monk went into the jungle and was beginning to gather fruit when he heard a sound behind him.

He turned around, and saw . . . a tiger.

Not wanting to be breakfast for the tiger, the monk slowly began to creep away. But the tiger saw the movement, looked up, and began to walk towards the monk. The monk began to walk faster, and the tiger began to walk faster. The monk began to run as fast as he could, but the tiger began to run also, easily gaining on the monk. Suddenly the monk burst out of the jungle and found himself standing on the edge of . . . a cliff.

He turned around, and saw the tiger behind him, reaching through the bamboo with his claws. And in this moment the monk decided it was time to take a risk. He saw a vine lying on the edge of the cliff, and he grabbed tight to it with both hands and jumped off the cliff . . . The vine held! And the monk began to climb down the cliff.

He was halfway down the cliff when he heard a sound below. Looking down, he saw . . . a tiger at the bottom of the cliff! The monk said: “Wait a minute. Either that’s the worlds fastest tiger, or . . . ” and he looked up and saw that the tiger at the top of the cliff was still there! Now there was a tiger at both the top of the cliff and the bottom of the cliff!

He clung to the vine, trying to decide what to do. As he was thinking, out of a small hole in the cliff right above where the monk was holding onto the vine, poked the nose of a very tiny mouse. It smelled the vine the monk was clinging to, leaned out, and began to nibble at the vine right above where the monk was holding onto it . . .

In this moment of crisis, the monk saw something. Growing out of a crevice in the cliff right near him was a strawberry plant, and inside of it was the biggest, most luscious strawberry he had ever seen! And this is what the monk did – he reached out, grabbed the strawberry, plucked it, ate it, and . . . here’s the key . . .he ENJOYED it!

Now it happened that just as the mouse finished nibbling through the vine and it fell away, the monk found a tiny ledge to cling to. He held onto it for so long that the tiger at the bottom of the cliff got bored and went away, and the tiger at

the top of the cliff got bored and went away. Very slowly the monk made his way back on up the cliff, through the jungle, and back into his village in time for supper. While they were eating, the monk told the other monks what had happened to him that day. They all smiled and said they were glad that he was safe. The monk thanked them, and then said: “Yes, I too am glad that I am safe. However, you know how we all try to learn something each day?” They all agreed with him.

“Well, I learned something today.” said the monk.

“What did you learn?” they all asked.

“Too often I spend all my time worrying about everything that has happened to me in the past (the tiger at the top of the cliff). And too often I spend too much time worrying about what might happen to me in the future (the tiger at the bottom of the cliff). Or, worst of all, I spend too much time worrying about the nibbling, nagging worries of each and every day (the mouse). And when a true strawberry in my life comes along, I forget to pluck it, eat it, and most of all . . .

ENJOY it!”

“So not only should we wish for many strawberries in our lives, but also the wisdom to know they are there – to pluck them, taste them, and fully enjoy each and every precious moment.”

Courageous: Taking Responsible Risks

“Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”

Kobi Yamada

“There is a time for daring and a time for caution, and a wise man knows which is called for.”

John Keating, Teacher in Dead Poet’s Society

“The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

“The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little past them into the impossible.”

Arthur Clarke

“We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing our hopes.”

John F. Kennedy

“Don’t be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps.”

David Lloyd George

“The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear.”

William Jennings Bryan

“Undertake something that is difficult; it will do you good. Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered,   you will never grow.”

Ronald Osborn

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.”

Elbert Hubbard

One must work and dare if one really wants to live

Vincent VanGogh

“Do not fear risk. All exploration, all growth is calculated. Without challenge people cannot reach their higher selves. Only if we are willing to walk over the edge can we become winners.”

The families of the Challenger Space Shuttle Crew

“It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.”

Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“Looking back on my life, I wish I’d stepped forward and made a fool of myself more often when I was younger? Because when you do, you find out you can do it.”

William Sessions, Former FBI Director

Only when we accept full responsibility for our lives will we have the confidence and courage to risk.”

Stacy Allison, first American woman to climb Mt. Everest

“Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?”

Frank Scully

“Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”

Robert F. Kennedy

“Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.”

Anonymous





Traveling Quotes

24 11 2011

Don’t take life too seriously…no one comes out alive
- Elbert Hubbard

A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving
- Lao Tzu

He who knows that he has enough, will always have enough
- Lao Tzu

Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth.
- Buddha

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.
- Lao Tzu

We need the possibility of escape as surely as we need hope
- Edward Abbey

My greatest skill has been to want little
- Henry David Thoreau

Always do what you are afraid to do
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure.
The fearful are caught as often as the bold.
- Helen Keller

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
- Helen Keller

We will not cease from our exploration and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.
- T.S. Elliot

Travel is not really about leaving our homes, but leaving our habits.
- Pico Iyer

Not all those who wander are lost
- JRR Tolkien

If you don’t know where you are going, any road will lead you there
- Unknown

A journey is best measured in friends, not in miles.
- Tim Cahill

Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention to arrive safely in a pretty & well preserved body; but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow! What a ride!’
- Hunter S. Thompson

Travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.
- Miriam Beard

The purpose of life is to live it, to taste it, to experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.
- Eleanor Roosevelt”

All things considered, there are only two kinds of men in the world: those that stay at home and those that do not.
- Rudyard Kipling

Wherever you go, go with all your heart.
- Confucius

Tourists don’t know where they’ve been, travelers don’t know where they’re going.
- Paul Theroux

Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

To travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about other countries.
- Aldous Huxley

The first condition of understanding a foreign country is to smell it.
- Rudyard Kipling

And forget not that the Earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair.
- Kahlil Gibran

Nobody comes back from a journey the way they started it.
- Unknown

“An adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered. An inconvenience is an adventure wrongly considered.”
― G.K. Chesterton





Faith is…………..

17 11 2011

-Singing when you can’t hear the music

-Dancing when you can’t feel the rhythm

-Composing poetry when there is no rhyme or reason

-Coloring when life gives you broken crayons

-Risking when fear says don’t jump

-Courage to climb from your cage when your pain says to retreat

-Flying with no visible means of support

-Feeling your hand is held when you don’t see your Father

-Knowing you are loved when you feel unlovable.

-Proclaiming God is present when He seems absent





A Passion for Books (Quotes for those who still love books)

8 11 2011

No matter what his rank or position may be, the lover of books is the richest and the happiest of all.

John Alfred Langford

 

I have sought for happiness everywhere, but I have found it nowhere except in a little corner with a little book.

Thomas A Kempis

 

A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say.

Italo Calvino

 

It is from books that wise people derive consolation in the troubles of life.

Victor Hugo

 

When you reread a classic you do not see more in the book than you did before: you see more in you than was there before.

Clifton Fadiman

 

The result of reading is not more books but more life.

Holbrook Jackson

 

Just the knowledge that a good book is waiting one at the end of a long day makes that day happier.

     Kathleen Norris

 

It is the books we read before middle life that do most to mold our character and influence our lives.

Robert Pitman

My early and invincible love of reading,…..I would not exchange for the treasures of India.

     Edward Gibbon

 

When you sell a man a book you don’t sell him just twelve ounces of paper and ink and glue- you sell him a whole new life.
Love and friendship and humor and ships at sea by night-there’s all heaven and earth in a book, a real book I mean.

          Christopher Morley

 

The person who does not read good books has no advantage over the person who can’t read them.

          Mark Twain

 

Every person who knows how to read has it in his power to magnify himself, to multiply the ways in which he exists, to make his life full, significant and interesting.                         

          Aldous Huxley

 

 

The love of reading enables a person to exchange the wearisome hours of life, which come to every one, for hours of delight.

         Montesquieu

 

The first time I read an excellent book, it is to me just as if I had gained a new friend.  When I read over a book I have
perused before, it resembles the meeting with an old one.

    Oliver Goldsmith

 

I never remain passive in the process of reading: while I read I am engaged in a constant creative activity, which leads me to remember not so much the actual matter of the book as the thoughts evoked in my mind by it, directly or indirectly.

Nicholas Berdyaev                                        

Friends, books, a cheerful heart, and conscience clear Are the most choice companions we have here.

William Mather

 

My best friend is a person who will give me a book I have not read.

    Abraham Lincoln

 

We use books like mirrors, gazing into them only to discover ourselves.

       Joseph Epstein

 

A truly great book should be read in youth, again in maturity, and once more in old age.

    Robertson Davies

 

It is chiefly through books that we enjoy conversation with superior minds….In the best books, great men talk to us, give us their most precious thoughts, and pour their souls into ours.

William Ellery Channing

 

A book is like a garden carried in the pocket.

             Chinese Proverb

 

Books are the compass and telescopes and sextants and charts which other people have prepared to help us navigate the dangerous seas of human life.

Jesse Lee Bennett

 

Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.  As by the one, health is preserved, strengthened, and invigorated: by
the other, virtue (which is the health of the mind) is kept alive, cherished, and confirmed.

         Joseph Addison

 

Books are the quietest and most constant friends: they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and most patient of teaches.


Charles W. Eliot

 

Some books are meant to be tasted, others to be swallowed , and some few to be chewed and digested; that is, some books are to be read only in parts; others to be read but not curiously; and some few to be read wholly, and with diligence and attention.

Francis Bacon

 

Only three things are necessary to make life happy: the blessing of God, books , and a friend.
Lacordaire





Change Quotes

31 08 2011

Change

To change one’s life: Start immediately. Do it flamboyantly. No exceptions
William James

Get all the education you can, but then, by God, do something. Don’t just stand there: make it happen.
Lee Iococca

Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.
Walter Bagehot

The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it.
H. Norman Schwarzkopf

The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.
George Bernard Shaw

Watch your thought; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
Frank Outlaw

If you think you can do a thing or think you can not do a thing, you’re right.
Henry Ford

We cannot choose the things that will happen to us. But we can choose the attitude we will take toward anything that happens. Success or failure depends on your attitude.
Alfred A. Montapert

Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.
Will Rogers

When you’re through changing, you’re through.
Bruce Barton

One must never lose time in vainly regretting the past or in complaining against the changes which cause us discomfort, for change is the essence of life.
Anatole France
We must change in order to survive.
Pearl Baily
Change is a challenge and an opportunity, not a threat.
Prince Phillip of England

The first step toward change is acceptance…. Change is not something you do, it’s something you allow.
Will Garcia
Be the change that you want to see in the world.
Mahatma Gandhi

Will you be the rock that redirects the course of the river?
Claire Nuer

The world will not change until we do.
Jim Wallis

Never underestimate your power to change yourself:
Never overestimate your power to change others.
Viktor Frankl

Everything flows, nothing stays still.
Heraclitus

Yesterday is a canceled check; tomorrow is a promissory note: today is the only cash you have–
so spend it wisely.
Kay Lyons

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
Charles Dederich

There is no such thing in anyone’s life as an unimportant day. Alexander Woollcott

I wasn’t afraid to fail. Something good always comes out of failure.
Anne Baxter

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?
Robert Schuller

We are the choices we make.
Meryl Streep

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
Theodore Roosevelt

The greatest use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it.
William James

Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.
William Feather

The beginning is the most important part of the work.
Plato





Successful Creativity is Attentive

20 03 2011

Devoting mental energy to another person’s thoughts and ideas

 Make an effort to perceive another’s point of view and emotions

 Listening with understanding and empathy

“The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.”    

Dorothy Nevill

“If you want to be listened to, you should put in time listening.”

Marge Piercy

“The simple act of paying attention can take you a long way.”

Keanu Reeves

 

 “If there is any secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from his angle as well as from your own.”

Henry Ford

 

“Nothing increases the respect and gratitude of one man for another more than when he is heard exactly and with interest.”

R. Umbach

 

Listening is the beginning of understanding…. Wisdom is the reward for a lifetime of listening. Let the wise listen and add to their learning and let the discerning get guidance.

Proverbs 1:5 23

“I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.”           Ernest Hemingway

 

“Life is the first gift, love is the second, and understanding the third.”                                                                  Marge Piercy

 

“Silent and listen are spelled with the same letters!”

Unknown

 

 

“Listening is as important as talking… If you’re a good listener, people often compliment you for being a good conversationalist.”

Jesse Ventura

 

 

“If you spend more time asking appropriate questions rather than giving answers or opinions, your listening skills will increase.”

Brian Koslow

 

“Most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness.”

Margaret Millar

 

“One of the best ways to persuade others is with your ears— by listening to them.”

Dean Rusk, U.S. Secretary of State

 

“If you can learn a simple trick, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view . . . until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.”

Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

 

 

“Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.”

Robert Frost

 

“Hearing is a passive activity— you’re allowing sound waves to penetrate your ear. In listening, you actively determine meaning to what is heard— you listen with your eyes and ears.”

Carolyn Riddle, Sales Person

 

“Nature has given men one tongue and two ears that we may hear twice as much as we speak.”

Epictetus

 

“A good listener tries to understand what the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with.”

 Kenneth A. Wells

 

 

“Well-timed silence hath more eloquence than speech.”

Martin Fraquhar Tupper

 

“Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.”

Anonymous

 

“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.”

Winston Churchill

“It is understanding that gives us an ability to have peace. When we understand the other fellow’s viewpoint, and he understands ours, then we can sit down and work out the differences.”

Harry S. Truman

 

 

“If you want to be listened to, you should put in time listening.”

Marge Piercy

 

“If there is any secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from his angle as well as from your own.”

Henry Ford

 

“Hearing is a passive activity— you’re allowing sound waves to penetrate your ear. In listening, you actively determine meaning to what is heard —you listen with your eyes and ears.”                                                                                      Carolyn Riddle, Sales Person





Successful Creativity is Persistent-Stick to it!

16 03 2011

Persevering in a task  through to its completion

 Remaining focused.

 Not giving up

 Looking for ways  to reach your goal when stuck.

Be like a postage stamp— stick to one thing until you get there.”                                                                                           Margaret Carty
 “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing.”   Araham Lincoln

“Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul.”
Douglas MacArthur

“In the realm of ideas, everything depends on enthusiasm; in the real world, all rests on perseverance.”    Goethe

“If I had to select one quality, one personal characteristic  that I regard as being most highly correlated with success  whatever the field,  I would pick the trait of persistence.
Richard M. Devos

“Persistence is the twin sister of excellence. One is a matter of quality; the other, a matter of time.”    Marabel Morgan

“Most of the important things in the world  have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying  when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
Dale Carnegie

“When we accept tough jobs as a challenge to our ability and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm,  miracles can happen.”    Arland Gilbert

 “Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity. “
Louis Pasteur

“Studies indicate that the one quality all successful people have is they’re willing to spend more time accomplishing a task  and to persevere in the face of many difficult odds.   There’s a very positive relationship between people’s ability to accomplish any task  and the time they’re willing to spend on it.”
Joyce Brothers,  Psychologist and Author

“Striving for success without hard work  is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.”
David Bly

“Obstacles don’t have to stop you.  If you run into a wall,  don’t turn around and give up.  Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
Michael Jordan

“Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent.”
Marlene Savant

“I think there are two keys to being creatively productive.  One is not being daunted by one’s fear of failure.   The second is sheer perseverance.”   Mary-Claire King

Fall seven times,  stand up eight.      Japanese Proverb

  “Perseverance is the hard work you do  after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did.”                                                                                                                                                      Newt Gingrich

 “I think and think for months and years.  Ninety-nine times the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right.”       Albert Einstein,

Great works are performed not by strength,   but by perseverance.”     Samual Johnson                                       

 “It’s not that I’m so smart,  it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”                                            Albert Einstein

 “Strength does not come from winning.    Your struggles develop your strengths.   When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender,   that is strength.”   Arnold Schwarzenegger

 “Nothing in the world can take the place  of persistence and determination.”
Calvin Coolidge

  “You don’t win an Olympic gold medal  with a few weeks of intensive training.”
Seth Godin

“People of mediocre ability sometimes achieve  outstanding success because they don’t know when to quit.”        George Herbert All





Motivational Life Lessons from Games

12 03 2011

-When you don’t understand the rules, you cannot play the game of life successfully.

-Be willing to learn new things so you are more equipped to make better choices and decisions.

-Commit to paying attention and reflecting upon the actions and behaviors of those around you.

-Your actions determine your outcomes.

-Your life experience is made up of the choices you make and the outcomes that accompany them each and every day.

-If you hope to have a winning life strategy you have to be honest about where your life is right now.

-Life rewards action.

-A strategy requires courage, commitment and energy in order to succeed.

-When you know your goals, you will recognize which choices support them and which do not.

-Study and dissect your mistakes so you can avoid repeating them.

-Study and analyze your successes so you can repeat the behavior that has brought you positive results.

-Losers just make it up as they go along.

-Genius is the ability to reduce the complicated to the simple.

-Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

-Some people dream of success, while others wake-up and work hard at it.

-The race goes not always to the swift…but to those who keep on running.

-Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving.  We must sail sometimes with the wind and     sometimes against it- but sail we must, and not drift, nor lie at anchor.

-  Commit to paying attention and reflecting upon the actions and behaviors of those around you.

- Your life experience is made up of the choices you make and the outcomes that accompany them each and every day.

- Seize the opportunity when it presents itself and create opportunity where it does not exist already.

- Winners are people who have taken meaningful actions, not just thoughts about the thing they want to do.

- Be persistent in the pursuit of your life’s goals.

- Winning doesn’t just happen to people. On the other hand losing is what happens when you are not making the right choices to win.

-The team on top of the mountain did not fall there.

- When you know your goals, you will recognize which choices support them and which do not.

 - Tactics is something you do when there is something to do and strategy is something you do when there is nothing to do.





Success Quotes to Motivate

8 03 2011

Teamwork is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results.

 Snowflakes are one of nature’s most fragile things, but just look at what they can do when they stick together.

 When a collection of brilliant minds , hearts, and talents come together…expect a masterpiece.

 Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world.  Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.

 No problem can withstand the sustained power of great attitudes, they are like ripples in the water…they spread.

 There are no shortcuts in any place worth going.  When you have exhausted all possibilities, remember this…you haven’t.

 The team on top of the mountain did not fall there.

 Your attitude almost always determines your altitude in life.

 Courage does not always roar.  Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.”

 The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity.  The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.

The best way to predict the future is to create it.

 If your are not riding the wave of change…. you will find yourself beneath it.

 A ship in the harbor is safe…but that is not what ships were made for.

 Only those who see the invisible can do the impossible.

 It takes only a single idea, a single action to move the world.

 Genius is the ability to reduce the complicated to the simple.

 Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

 Some people dream of success, while others wake-up and work hard at it.

 The race goes not always to the swift…but to those who keep on running.

 Success is a journey, not a destination.

 Countless, unseen details are often the only difference between mediocre and magnificent.

 Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving.  We must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it- but sail we must, and not drift, nor lie at anchor.

 Wisdom is knowing what path to take next…integrity is taking it.

 The sea is dangerous and storms terrible, but these obstacles have never been sufficient reason to remain ashore… unlike the mediocre, intrepid spirits seek victory over those thins that seem impossible… it is with an iron will that they embark on the most daring of all endeavors…to meet the shadowy future without fear and conquer the unknown.   Ferdinand Magellan





Famous Motivational Movie Battle Speeches

8 03 2011

Brave Heart

I am William Wallace, and I see a whole army of my countrymen here in defiance of tyranny. You have come to fight as free men, and free men you are. What will you do with that freedom? Will you fight? Aye, fight and you may die, run and you’ll live. At least a while. And dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all the days from this day to that for one chance, just one chance to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives, but they’ll never take our freedom?! Alba gu brath! (Scotland forever!)

Lord of the Rings

Arise! Arise, Riders of Théoden. Spears shall be shaken! Shields shall be splintered! A sword day! A red day! Ere the sun rises!. Ride now! Ride now! Ride! Ride for ruin, and the world’s ending! Death! Sons of Gondor! Of Rohan! My brothers. I see in your eyes the same fear that would take the heart of me. A day may come when the courage of Men fails, when we forsake our friends and break all bonds of fellowship, but it is not this day. An hour of wolves and shattered shields when the Age of Men comes crashing down, but it is not this day! This day we fight! By all that you hold dear on this good earth, I bid you stand, Men of the West!

Independence Day In less than an hour, aircraft from here will join others from around the world. And you will be launching the largest aerial battle in this history of mankind. Mankind — that word should have new meaning for all of us today. We can’t be consumed by our petty differences anymore. We will be united in our common interests. Perhaps its fate that today is the 4th of July; and you will once again be fighting for our freedom, not from tyranny, oppression, or persecution — but from annihilation. We’re fighting for our right to live, to exist. And should we win this day, the 4th of July will no longer be known as an American holiday, but as the day when the world declared in one voice: “We will not go quietly into the night. We will not vanish without a fight. We’re going to live on. We’re going to survive.”  Today, we celebrate our Independence Day!

 St. Crispian’s Day Speech Henry V, By William Shakespeare This day is called the feast of Crispian: He that outlives this day, and comes safe home, Will stand a tip-toe when the day is named, And rouse him at the name of Crispian. He that shall live this day, and see old age, Will yearly on the vigil feast his neighbours, And say ‘To-morrow is Saint Crispian:’ Then will he strip his sleeve and show his scars. And say ‘These wounds I had on Crispin’s day.’ Old men forget: yet all shall be forgot, But he’ll remember with advantages What feats he did that day: then shall our names. Familiar in his mouth as household words Harry the king, Bedford and Exeter, Warwick and Talbot, Salisbury and Gloucester, Be in their flowing cups freshly remember’d. This story shall the good man teach his son; And Crispin Crispian shall ne’er go by, From this day to the ending of the world, But we in it shall be remember’d; We few, we happy few, we band of brothers; For he to-day that sheds his blood with me Shall be my brother; be he ne’er so vile, This day shall gentle his condition: And gentlemen in England now a-bed Shall think themselves accursed they were not here, And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks That fought with us upon Saint Crispin’s day.





Quotes about Courage

1 03 2011

Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”
Kobi Yamada

“There is a time for daring and a time for caution, and a wise man knows which is called for.”
John Keating, Teacher in Dead Poet’s Society

“The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
 
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

“The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little past them into the impossible.”
Arthur Clarke

“We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing our hopes.”
John F. Kennedy

“Don’t be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps.”
David Lloyd George

“The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear.”
William Jennings Bryan

Undertake something that is difficult; it will do you good. Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered,   you will never grow.”
Ronald Osborn

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.”
Elbert Hubbard

One must work and dare if one really wants to live Vincent VanGogh
Do not fear risk. All exploration, all growth is calculated. Without challenge people cannot reach their higher selves. Only if we are willing to walk over the edge can we become winners.”
The families of the Challenger Space Shuttle Crew
“It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.”
Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“Looking back on my life, I wish I’d stepped forward and made a fool of myself more often when I was younger—because when you do, you find out you can do it.”
William Sessions, Former FBI Director

Only when we accept full responsibility for our lives will we have the confidence and courage to risk.”
Stacy Allison, first American woman to climb Mt. Everest

“I want to work with the top people, because only they have the courage and the confidence and the risk-seeking profile that you need.”
Laurel Cutler

“You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
Wayne Gretzky

Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?”      Frank Scully

Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”
Robert F. Kennedy

“Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.”
Anonymous

“Do one thing everyday that scares you.”
Eleanor Roosevelt





Motivational Quotes to Inspire You to do you Best

28 02 2011

You don’t have the moral right to hold one child back to make another child feel better. – Stephanie Tolan

It’s not important what people say about us. It’s only important what we know inside about ourselves. – Horatio Caine, CSI Miami

Every gift contains a danger. Whatever gift we have we are compelled to express. And if the expression of that gift is blocked, distorted, or merely allowed to languish, then the gift turns against us, and we suffer. – L. Johnson

With regard to excellence, it is not enough to know, but we must try to have and use it. – Aristotle

Radical accelerants adjust well academically and socially. – Miraca Gross

None of the [acceleration] options has been shown to do psychosocial damage to gifted students as a group; when effects are noted, they are usually (but not invariably) in a positive direction. – Nancy M. Robinson, University of Washington

Acceleration levels the playing field of opportunity because any cost to the family or school is minimal. – A Nation Deceived: How Schools Hold Back America’s Brightest Students

The surest path to positive self esteem is to succeed at something which one perceived would be difficult. Each time we steal a student’s struggle, we steal the opportunity for them to build self-confidence.  They must learn to do hard things to feel good about themselves. –  Sylvia Rimm

It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult. – Seneca

Satisfaction of one’s curiosity is one of the greatest sources of happiness in life. – Linus Pauling

No bird soars too high if he soars with his own wings. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Keeping a child who can do sixth-grade work in a second-grade classroom is not saving that student’s childhood but is instead robbing that child of the desire to learn. – Ellen Winner, Gifted Children: Myths and Realities

It is surprising that very highly gifted children do not rebel more frequently against the inappropriate educational provision which is generally made for them. Studies have repeatedly found that the great majority of highly gifted students are required to work, in class, at levels several years below their tested achievement. Underachievement may be imposed on the exceptionally gifted child through the constraints of an inappropriate and undemanding educational program or, as often happens, the child may deliberately underachieve in an attempt to seek peer-group acceptance. – Miraca U.M. Gross, Exceptionally Gifted Children

The wisest mind has something yet to learn. – George Santayana

“I initially thought Terry would be just like one of them, to graduate as early as possible,” he said. But after talking to experts on education for gifted children, he changed his mind.  “To get a degree at a young age, to be a record-breaker, means nothing,” he said. “I had a pyramid model of knowledge, that is, a very broad base and then the pyramid can go higher. If you just very quickly move up like a column, then you’re more likely to wobble at the top and then collapse.”  – Billy Tao, Terrance Tao’s father

There are risks and costs to action. But they are far less than the long range risks of comfortable inaction. –  John F. Kennedy

Being different isn’t always a bad thing. –  Alicia, The Fantastic Four

The emerging era is characterized by the collaboration innovation of many people working in gifted communities, just as innovation in the industrial era was characterized by individual genius. – Irving W. Berger, chairman, IBM

Closing the achievement gap by pushing down the top is like fostering fitness by outlawing marathons. – Helen Schinske

The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man. – George Bernard Shaw, Man and Superman (1903)

Not being known doesn’t stop the truth from being true. – Richard Bach, in Messiah’s Handbook

There is little doubt that educators have been largely negative about the practice of acceleration despite abundant research evidence attesting to its validity. It is difficult to understand the hostility of many educators to this acceleration strategy. – James T. Gallagher, University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill (2004)

No paradox is more striking than the inconsistency between research findings on acceleration and the failure of our society to reduce the time spent by superior students in formal education. – M. J. Gold, Education of the Intellectually Gifted (1965)

Clearly, the research on groups of early entrants … strongly suggests that many of [the students] were highly successful academically without experiencing concomitant social or emotional difficulties. – Linda E. Brody, Michelle C. Muratori & Julian Stanley, Johns Hopkins University

Acceleration levels the playing field of opportunity because any cost to the family or school is minimal. – A Nation Deceived

Not only was academic achievement more positive for the grade skipped learners, but also their social adjustment and academic self-esteem were more positive. – Karen B. Rogers, University of St. Thomas (Minnesota)

Adult surveys of gifted individuals reveal that they do not regret their acceleration. Rather, they regret not having accelerated more. – Lubinski, Webb, et al. (2001)

No other arrangements for gifted children works as well as acceleration – James A. Kulik, The University of Michigan

Meta-analytic reviews have consistently concluded that education acceleration helps students academically without shortchanging them socially and emotionally. – James A. Kulik, The University of Michigan

Creativity is like life insurance. If you are creative, you are never afraid, because you can design yourself out of any situation. – Li Edelkoort

He never pays attention, he always knows the answer, and he can never tell you how he knows. We can’t keep thrashing him. He is a bad example to the other pupils. There’s no educating a smart boy. – Terry Pratchett, Thief of Time

Our kids are normal.  They just aren’t typical… – Jim Delisle

Anything that’s worth doing, is worth doing poorly! – Joachim DePosada
Webmaster’s note: think about it.  Everyone does everything poorly, at first…

Still rarer is the man who thinks habitually, who applies reason, rather than habit pattern, to all his activity. Unless he masques himself, his is a dangerous life; he is regarded as queer, untrustworthy, subversive of public morals; he is a pink monkey among brown monkeys – a fatal mistake. Unless the pink monkey can dye himself brown before he is caught.

The brown monkey’s instinct to kill is correct; such men are dangerous to all monkey customs.

Rarest of all is the man who can and does reason at all times, quickly, accurately, inclusively, despite hope or fear or bodily distress, without egocentric bias or thalmic disturbance, with correct memory, with clear distinction between fact, assumption, and non-fact. – Robert Heinlein in Gulf, a short story in Assignment in Eternity

There is physical and psychological pain in being thwarted, discouraged, and diminished as a person. To have ability, to feel power you are never allowed to use, can become traumatic. – Genius Denied: How to Stop Wasting Our Brightest Young Minds, by Jan and Bob Davidson

Mom / Elasta-girl: “It’s perfectly normal…” 
Violet / daughter: “Normal?  What do you know about normal?  What does anybody in this family know about normal?”
Mom: “Now wait a minute young lady…” 
Violet: “We act normal, mom.  I want to be normal.  The only normal one is Jack-Jack and he’s not even toilet-trained!”
    (three months later)
Violet: “I feel different … is different OK?”
Tony / new friend: “Different is great!” – The Incredibles

Dad / Mr. Incredible: “It’s psychotic.  They keep creating new ways to celebrate mediocrity, but if someone is genuinely exceptional…”
Mom: “This is not about you, Bob.  This is about Dash.”
Dad: “You want to do something for Dash?  Then let him actually compete.  … Because he’d be great!” – The Incredibles

It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. – Dumbledore, in J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

My mind rebels at stagnation. Give me problems, give me work, give me the most abstruse cryptogram, or the most intricate analysis, and I am in my own proper atmosphere. I can dispense then with artificial stimulants. But I abhor the dull routine of existence. I crave for mental exaltation. – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence and fulfills the duty to express the results of his thought in clear form.. – Albert Einstein

In the ordinary elementary school situation children of 140 IQ waste half of their time.  Those above 170 IQ waste nearly all of their time.  With little to do, how can these children develop power of sustained effort, respect for the task, or habits of steady work? – Children Above 180 IQ Stanford-Binet: Origin and Development, Leta S. Hollingworth, p. 299.

If we were TV sets, some of us would only get five channels. Others are wired for cable (the general population) and some of us (the gifted) are hooked up to a satellite dish. That makes these gifted children capable of making connections that others don’t even know exist! Teaching those types of voracious minds in a regular classroom without enhancement is like feeding an elephant one blade of grass at time. You’ll starve them. – Elizabeth Meckstroth

The natural trajectory of giftedness in childhood is not a six-figure salary, perfect happiness, and a guaranteed place in Who’s Who. It is the deepening of the personality, the strengthening of one’s value system, the creation of greater and greater challenges for oneself, and the development of broader avenues for expressing compassion. – Counseling the Gifted and Talented, Dr. Linda K. Silverman, p. 22.

“The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive.
To him…
a touch is a blow,
a sound is a noise,
a misfortune is a tragedy,
a joy is an ecstasy,
a friend is a lover,
a lover is a god,
and failure is death.
Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create – - – so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating.” – Pearl Buck

Unfortunately some people deny the fundamental role of acceleration in a program for the gifted. In so doing, they are in effect denying who and what defines the gifted at any stage of development – children who exhibit advanced intellectual development in one or more areas. – Joyce VanTassel-Baska, 1992

If they learn easily, they are penalized for being bored when they have nothing to do; if they excel in some outstanding way, they are penalized as being conspicuously better than the peer group. The culture tries to make the child with a gift into a one-sided person, to penalize him at every turn, to cause him trouble in making friends and to create conditions conducive to the development of a neurosis. Neither teachers, the parents of other children, nor the child peers will tolerate a Wunderkind. – Margaret Mead, 1954

Mildly, moderately, highly and extraordinarily gifted children are as different from each other as mildly, moderately, severely and profoundly retarded children are from each other, but the differences among levels of giftedness are rarely recognized. – Dr. Linda K. Silverman

To understand highly gifted children it is essential to realize that, although they are children with the same basic needs as other children, they are very different. Adults cannot ignore or gloss over their differences without doing serious damage to these children, for the differences will not go away or be outgrown. They affect almost every aspect of these children’s intellectual and emotional lives. A microscope analogy is one useful way of understanding extreme intelligence. If we say that all people look at the world through a lens, with some lenses cloudy or distorted, some clear, and some magnified, we might say that gifted individuals view the world through a microscope lens and the highly gifted view it through an electron microscope. They see ordinary things in very different ways and often see what others simply cannot see. Although there are advantages to this heightened perception, there are disadvantages as well. – Stephanie S. Tolan, Helping Your Highly Gifted Child  

Boredom will always remain the greatest enemy of school disciplines. If we remember that children are bored, not only when they don’t happen to be interested in the subject or when the teacher doesn’t make it interesting, but also when certain working conditions are out of focus with their basic needs, then we can realize what a great contributor to discipline problems boredom really is. Research has shown that boredom is closely related to frustration and that the effect of too much frustration is invariably irritability, withdrawal, rebellious opposition or aggressive rejection of the whole show. – Fritz Redl, When We Deal With Children

Most teachers waste their time by asking questions which are intended to discover what a pupil does not know whereas the true art of questioning has for its purpose to discover what the pupil knows or is capable of knowing. – Albert Einstein

All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us should have an equal opportunity to develop our talent. – John F. Kennedy Civil Rights Address

Ain’t no man can avoid being born average, but there ain’t no man got to be common. – Satchel Paige

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?” Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us. It is in everyone. And as we let our light shine, we give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. – Marianne Williamson

SHOULD all kids do it?  COULD all kids do it?  WOULD all kids want to?  If the answer to any of these questions is “yes” then it isn’t differentiated.. – Harry Passow’s test for a differentiated curriculum

Within the top 1% of the IQ distribution, then, there is at least as much spread of talent as there is in the entire range from the 1st to the 99th percentile. – Hal Robinson, The uncommonly bright child

Until every gifted child can attend a school where the brightest are appropriately challenged in an environment with their intellectual peers, America can’t claim that it’s leaving no child behind. – Jan and Bob Davidson with Laura Vanderkam, in Genius Denied

What is necessary and sufficient for the nongifted is necessary but insufficient for the gifted, who need more and different learning experiences to match their potentials. –  A.J. Tannenbaum (Gifted Children: Psychological and Educational Perspectives, 1983)

Genius without education is like silver in the mine. – Benjamin Franklin

What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child. – George Bernard Shaw

Do not worry about your difficulties in mathematics. I can assure you that mine are still greater. – Albert Einstein

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal. – Aristotle

I asked Mom if I was a gifted child. She said they certainly wouldn’t have PAID for me. – Calvin (Calvin & Hobbes)

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity.  – Albert Einstein

The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift. – Albert Einstein





Quotes to Challenge Your Productivity

28 02 2011

 

Intelligence is the ability to take in information from the world and to find patterns in that information that allow you to organize your perceptions and understand the external world. – Brian Greene, physicist & author

Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly recognizes genius. – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function. – F. Scott Fitzgerald

Men fear thought as they fear nothing else on earth — more than ruin — more even than death…. Thought is subversive and revolutionary, destructive and terrible, thought is merciless to privilege, established institutions, and comfortable habit. Thought looks into the pit of hell and is not afraid. Thought is great and swift and free, the light of the world, and the chief glory of man. – Bertrand Russell

To repeat what others have said, requires education; to challenge it, requires brains. – Mary Pettibone Poole

It is not worth an intelligent man’s time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that. – G. H. Hardy

Hide not your talents. They for use were made. What’s a sundial in the shade? – Benjamin Franklin

Gifted children have no greater obligation than any other children to be future leaders or world class geniuses. They should just be given a chance to be themselves, children who might like to classify their collections of baseball cards by the middle initials of the players, or who might like to spend endless afternoon hours in dreamy reading of novels, and to have an education that appreciates and serves these behaviors. – Jane Piirto,

…as much as the world has benefited from the contributions of gifted individuals, it is disturbing…to realize that the population least likely to learn and achieve its potential is the highly gifted. – Joseph Cardillo, Gifted Children: Nurturing Genius (Part One)

It’s a tough time to raise, teach or be a highly gifted child… Schools are to extraordinarily intelligent children what zoos are to cheetahs… Every organism has an internal drive to fulfill its biological design. The same is true for unusually bright children. From time to time the bars need be removed, the enclosures broadened. Zoo Chow, easy and cheap as it is, must give way, at least some of the time, to lively, challenging mental prey. – Stephanie Tolan, Is It A Cheetah?

Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night. – Edgar Allan Poe

The greatest intelligence is precisely the one that suffers most from its own limitations. – Andre Gide

It is not enough to have a good mind; the main thing is to use it well. – Rene Descartes

I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use. – Galileo Galilei

I’ve always felt that a person’s intelligence is directly reflected by the number of conflicting points of view he can entertain simultaneously on the same topic. – Abigail Adams

You cannot solve a problem from the frame of mind that created the problem in the first place. – Albert Einstein

True wisdom is less presuming than folly. The wise man doubteth often, and changeth his mind; the fool is obstinate, and doubteth not; he knoweth all things but his own ignorance. – Akhenaton

The energy of the mind is the essence of life. – Aristotle

Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune. – Jim Rohn

Don’t measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability. – John Wooden

If you don’t invest very much, then defeat doesn’t hurt very much and winning is not very exciting. – Dick Vermeil

Intelligence is like a river: the deeper it is, the less noise it makes. – Unknown

A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. – Walter Bagehot

Paralyze resistance with persistence. – Woody Hayes

There are times when the greatest change needed is a change of my viewpoint. – C. M. Ward

Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow. – Ronald E. Osborn

We are altogether too easily deceived by the time-worn argument that the gifted student, ‘the genius’ perhaps, will ‘get along somehow without much teaching. The fact is, the gifted… and the brilliant… are the ones who need the closest attention of the skilful mechanic. – W. Franklin Jones, Ph. D., in An Experimental-Critical Study of the Problem of Grading and Promotion (1912)

There is more treasure in books than in the entire pirate’s loot on Treasure Island. – Walt Disney

As a society we must be able to admire ability, to support ability, to celebrate ability and to nurture ability. It must be as socially acceptable to support genius that is intellectual as it is to support genius that is athletic. – Michael Clay Thompson

What happens to the rat that stops running the maze? The doctors think it’s dumb when it’s just disappointed. – Mark Eitzel

Give me rigor or give me mortis! – Michael Clay Thompson

If you don’t make mistakes, you’re not working on hard enough problems. And that’s a big mistake. – F. Wikzek

When once the child has learned that 4 and 2 are 6, a thousand repetitions will give him no new information, and it is a waste of time to keep him in that manner. – J.M. Greenwood, 1888

You can never hold a person down without staying down with him. – Booker T. Washington

To learn a particular concept, some children need days, some ten minutes. But the typical lockstep schedule and curriculum ignores this fundamental fact. – Marilyn Hughes

One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar! – Helen Keller





Quotes to Motivate Creativity

15 02 2011
The mind is not a bucket to be filled but a fire to be ignited and continually kindled.-Plutarch

 I invent nothing.  I rediscover.

-Auguste Rodin

 The principal mark of genius is not perfection but originality, the opening of new frontiers.

-Arthur Koestler

 The best way to have a good idea is to have lots of ideas.

-Linus Pauling

 Invention is a combination of brains and material.  The more brains you use, the less material you need.

-Charles F.  Kettering

Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.

-Thomas Alva Edison

Ideas do not always have to be useful.  Ideas can be inventions or they can solve problems or they can help people–or they can simply be fun.  The mind is probably the least used source of enjoyment.

-Edward de Bono

Originality is simply a fresh pair of eyes.

-Woodrow Wilson

Creativity is first an act of destruction.

-Picasso

Only an inventor knows how to borrow, and every man is or should be an inventor.

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Daring ideas are like chessmen moved forward; they may be beaten, but they start a winning game.-Anonymous

The Wright brothers flew right through the smokescreen of impossibility.

-Charles Kettering

I skate where the puck is going to be, not where it has been.

-Wayne Gretzky

Walking the tight wire is living; everything else is waiting.

-Karl Wallenda

Good ideas are not adopted automatically.  They must be driven into practice with courageous patience.

-Admiral Hyman Rickover

All glory comes from daring to begin.

-Eugene F.  Ware

Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

-Jonathan Kozol

To cease to think creatively is but little different from ceasing to live.

-Ben Franklin

Ride the horse in the direction that it’s going.

-Werner Erhard

It takes courage to be creative.  Just as soon as you have a new idea, you are a minority of one.

-E.  Paul Torrance

Practice and persistence are the necessary ingredients of creativity.

-Anonymous





Motivating with Wonder

31 08 2010

The beginning of motivation is a sense of wonder. 

Wonder is very necessary in life. When we were little kids, we were filled with wonder for the world — it’s fascinating and miraculous. A lot of people lose that. They become cynical and jaded, especially in modern day society. Magic renews that wonder.                                                                                                  Doug Henning

The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science. Whoever does not know it and can no longer wonder, no longer marvel, is as good as dead, and his eyes are dimmed.                                                                                                       Einstein

I wonder why. I wonder why. / I wonder why I wonder /

 I wonder why I wonder why / I wonder why I wonder!
                                                          Richard Feynman’s childhood writings

   Here is a wonderful quote from Rachel L. Carson to get you started

on the theme of wonder. 

A Sense of Wonder

A child’s world is fresh and new and beautiful, full of wonder and excitement. It is our misfortune that for most of us that clear-eyed vision that true instinct for what is beautiful and awe-inspiring, is dimmed and even lost before we reach adulthood. If I had influence with the good fairy who is supposed to preside over the christening of all children I should ask that her gift to each child in the world be a sense of wonder so indestructible that it would last throughout life, as an unfailing antidote against the boredom and disenchantments of later years, the sterile preoccupation with things that are artificial, the alienation from the sources of our strength.

If a child is to keep alive his inborn sense of wonder without any such gift from the fairies, he needs the companionship of at least one adult who can share it, rediscovering with him the joy, excitement and mystery of the world we live in. Parents often have a sense of inadequacy when confronted on the one hand with the eager, sensitive mind of a child and on the other with a world of complex physical nature, inhabited by a life so various and unfamiliar that it seems hopeless to reduce it to order and knowledge. In a mood of self-defeat, they exclaim, “How can I possibly teach my child about nature — why, I don’t even know one bird from another!”

I sincerely believe that for the child, and for the parent seeking to guide him, it is not half so important to know as to feel. If facts are the seeds that later produce knowledge and wisdom, then the emotions and the impressions of the senses are the fertile soil in which the seeds must grow. The years of early childhood are the time to prepare the soil. Once the emotions have been aroused — a sense of the beautiful, the excitement of the new and the unknown, a feeling of sympathy, pity, admiration or love — then we wish for knowledge about the object of our emotional response. Once found, it has lasting meaning. It is more important to pave the way for the child to want to know than to put him on a diet of facts he is not ready to assimilate.

From The Sense of Wonder, by Rachel L. Carson, copyright 1956.

Here are some wonderful resources to read:

1. Child of Wonder:Nurturing Creative and Naturally Curious Children by Ginger Carlson

2. Motivated Minds: Raising children to Love Learning by Deborah Stipek and Kathy Seal

3. The Everyday Genius: Restoring children’s Natural Joy of learning and Yours Too by Peter Kline

4. Child’s Play: Enriching Your Child’s interests, from Rocket Science to Rock Climbing, Stamp collecting to Sculpture.

5.  Motivating Your Kids from Crayons to Career: How to Boost Your Child’s Learning and Achievement Without Pressure by Cheri Fuller

6.  Learning to Question to Wonder to Learn by Jamie McKenzie





Quotes that Make you Squirm and Wonder

10 08 2010

Disbelief in magic can force a poor soul into believing in government and business.

Tom Robbins

The only good is knowledge and the only evil is ignorance.

Socrates

Art, like morality, consists of drawing the line somewhere.

G. K. Chesterton

He may be mad, but there’s method in his madness. There nearly always is method in madness. It’s what drives men mad, being methodical.

G. K. Chesterton

In the first place, God made idiots. That was for practice. Then he made school boards.

Mark Twain

Victory belongs to the most persevering.

Napoleon Bonaparte

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.

Aristotle

The honest poor can sometimes forget poverty. The honest rich can never forget it.

G. K. Chesterton

The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our ways–I to die and you to live. Which is the better, only God knows?

Socrates

A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.

Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

The men who really believe in themselves are all in lunatic asylums.

G. K. Chesterton

It is not necessary to understand things in order to argue about them.

Pierre Beaumarchais

Democracy becomes a government of bullies tempered by editors.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

We are what we repeatedly do.

Aristotle

The people who are the most bigoted are the people who have no convictions at all.

G. K. Chesterton

Character is higher than intellect… A great soul will be strong to live, as well as to think.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Journalism largely consists of saying ‘Lord Jones is Dead’ to people who never knew that Lord Jones was alive.

G. K. Chesterton

It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.

Mahatma Gandhi

Man is by nature a political animal.

Aristotle

There are no wise few. Every aristocracy that has ever existed has behaved, in all essential points, exactly like a small mob.

G. K. Chesterton

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.

Cicero

The thing I hate about an argument is that it always interrupts a discussion.

G. K. Chesterton

You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.

Plato

An optimist is the human personification of spring.

Susan J. Bissonette

It’s a sign of mediocrity when you demonstrate gratitude with moderation.

Roberto Benigni

The outcome of any serious research can only be to make two questions grow where only one grew before.

Thorstein Veblen

Freedom is a possession of inestimable value.

Cicero

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.

Plato

Fallacies do not cease to be fallacies because they become fashions.

G. K. Chesterton

Energy and persistence conquer all things.

Benjamin Franklin

All our progress is an unfolding, like a vegetable bud. You have first an instinct, then an opinion,  then a knowledge as the plant has root, bud, and fruit. Trust the instinct to the end, though you can render no reason.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Bad men live that they may eat and drink, whereas good men eat and drink that they may live.

Socrates

An adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered. An inconvenience is an adventure wrongly considered.

G. K. Chesterton

Don’t ever take a fence down until you know the reason it was put up.

G. K. Chesterton

The quickest way of ending a war is to lose it.

George Orwell

Science may set limits to knowledge, but should not set limits to imagination.

Bertrand Russell

Literature is a luxury; fiction is a necessity.

G. K. Chesterton

You can only be young once. But you can always be immature.

Dave Barry

Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.

Henry David Thoreau

The men who really believe in themselves are all in lunatic asylums.

G. K. Chesterton

Neither can embellishments of language be found without arrangement and expression of thoughts, nor can thoughts be made to shine without the light of language.

Cicero

Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves.

William Pitt

Poets have been mysteriously silent on the subject of cheese.

G. K. Chesterton

With reasonable men I will reason; with humane men I will plea; but to tyrants I will give neither no quarter, nor waste arguments where they will certainly be lost.

William Lloyd Garrison

Who dares nothing, need hope for nothing.

Friedrich von Schiller

Of course truth is stranger than fiction, we make fiction suit ourselves.

G. K. Chesterton

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Mahatma Gandhi

A great fortune depends on luck, a small one on diligence.

Chinese Proverb

 

Man has responsibility, not power.

American Indian Proverb

The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions.

Anthony Jay

The printing press is either the greatest blessing or the greatest curse of modern times, sometimes one forgets which it is.

James Barrie

I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the very best advice, and then going away and doing the exact opposite.

G. K. Chesterton

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the former.

Albert Einstein

Nothing will make us so charitable and tender to the faults of others, as, by self-examination, thoroughly to know our own.

Francois Fenelon





Motivational Quotes –Productive

25 05 2010

“Ideas are like rabbits. You get a couple and learn how to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen.”
John Steinbeck

“All human beings are born with the same creative potential. Most people squander theirs away on a million superfluous things. I expend mine on one thing and one thing only: my art.”
Pablo Picasso

“Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen and thinking what nobody has thought.”
Albert von Szent-Gyorgyi

“Creativity is merely a plus name for regular activity…any activity becomes creative when the doer cares about doing it right, or better….”
John Updike, novelist, poet

“If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.”
Rollo May

“I believe everybody is creative, and everybody is talented. I just don’t think that everybody is disciplined. I think that’s a rare commodity.”
Al Hirschfield

“To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.”
Joseph Chilton Pearce

“We need people who can read and write. But what we really need is people who can not only read the instructions, but change them. They need to be able to think outside the lines.”
Richard Gurin, CEO and President, Binney & Smith, Croyola Products

“Insanity is continuing to do the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”
Albert Einstein

“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.”
Vincent Van Gogh

“The principle mark of genius is not perfection but originality, the opening of new frontiers.”
Arthur Koestler

“Creativity can solve almost any problem. The creative act, the defeat of habit by originality, overcomes everything.”
George Lois, Advertising Executive

“I learned . . . that inspiration does not come like a bolt, nor is it kinetic, energetic striving, but it comes into us slowly and quietly and all the time, though we must regularly and every day give it a little chance to start flowing, prime it with a little solitude and idleness.”
Brenda Ueland

“Creativity represents a miraculous coming together of the uninhibited energy of the child with its apparent opposite and enemy, the sense of order imposed on the disciplined adult intelligence.”
Norman Podhoretz

“It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation.”
Herman Melville

“Happiness . . . it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort.”
Franklin D. Roosevelt

“To think creatively, we must be able to look afresh at what we normally take for granted.”
George Kneller

“You unlock the door with the key of imagination.”
Rod Serling

 ”If I have a thousand ideas and only one turns out to be good, I am satisfied.” Alfred Nobel

 

“Creativity is inventing, experimenting, growing, taking risks, breaking rules, making mistakes, and having fun.”
Mary Lou Cook

“You are creative. Your creativity may be in a deep sleep, but it is there. All you have to do is wake it up and put it to use.”
Kevin Eikenberry, Speaker and Consultant

“The only job we have been given when we came to this earth is to create. Everything we do is a creation, from a job, to children to thoughts. We all create all the time, it is all we do.”
Tom Justin, author and trainer





Motivational Quotations: Playful

13 05 2010
  • Playful: Finding humor, the whimsical, incongruous, and unexpected

If you can laugh at it, you can live with it.”
Erma Bombeck”Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.”
Victor Borge

“The most wasted day is that in which we have not laughed.”
Sebastien-Roch Nicolas de Chamfort

“I’d rather be a failure at something I enjoy than be a success at something I hate.”
George Burns

“The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter.”
Mark Twain

“People are at their most mindful when they are at play. If we find ways of enjoying our work—blurring the lines between work and play—the gains will be greater.”
Ellen Langer

“You can increase your brain power three to fivefold simply by laughing and having fun before working on a problem.”
Doug Hall

“Fun is going to enhance interest, because people don’t feel incompetent when they’re having fun.”
Matthew S. Richter


“You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself.”
Ethel Barrymore

“Humor comes from self-confidence. There’s an aggressive element to wit.”
Rita Mae Brown

“A day without laughter is a day wasted.”
Charlie Chaplin

“Were it not for my little jokes, I could not bear the burdens of this office.”
Abraham Lincoln

 
“A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs—jolted by every pebble in the road.”
Henry Ward Beecher

“Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward.”
Kurt Vonnegut

“I think the next best thing to solving a problem is finding some humor in it.”
Frank A. Clark

“Laughter is an instant vacation.”
Milton Berle

“Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing.”
William James

“The kind of humor I like is the thing that makes me laugh for five seconds and think for ten minutes.”
William Davis

“Warning: Humor may be hazardous to your illness.”
Ellie Katz

“Joy in one’s heart and some laughter on one’s lips is a sign that the person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life.”
Hugh Sidey

“A good laugh is good for both the mental and physical digestion.”
Abraham Lincoln

“A man isn’t poor if he can still laugh.”
Raymond Hitchcock

What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul.
Yiddish Proverb

“The most exciting phrase to hear in science, the one that heralds new discoveries, is not ‘Eureka!’ but ‘That’s funny….’”
Isaac Asimov





Motivational Quotes: A Passion for Books

22 04 2010

A Passion for Books

 No matter what his rank or position may be, the lover of books is the richest and the happiest of all.

John Alfred Langford

I have sought for happiness everywhere, but I have found it nowhere except in a little corner with a little book.

Thomas A Kempis

 A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say.

Italo Calvino

 It is from books that wise people derive consolation in the troubles of life.

Victor Hugo

 When you reread a classic you do not see more in the book than you did before: you see more in you than was there before.

Clifton Fadiman

 The result of reading is not more books but more life.

Holbrook Jackson

 Just the knowledge that a good book is waiting one at the end of a long day makes that day happier.

 Kathleen Norris 

 It is the books we read before middle life that do most to mold our character and influence our lives.

Robert Pitman

My early and invincible love of reading,…..I would not exchange for the treasures of India.

Edward Gibbon

 When you sell a man a book you don’t sell him just twelve ounces of paper and ink and glue- you sell him a whole new life.  Love and friendship and humor and ships at sea by night-there’s all heaven and earth in a book, a real book I mean.

Christopher Morley

 The person who does not read good books has no advantage over the person who can’t read them.

Mark Twain

 

Every person who knows how to read has it in his power to magnify himself, to multiply the ways in which he exists, to make his life full, significant and interesting.

 Aldous Huxley

 The love of reading enables a person to exchange the wearisome hours of life, which come to every one, for hours of delight.

Montesquieu

The first time I read an excellent book, it is to me just as if I had gained a new friend.  When I read over a book I have perused before, it resembles the meeting with an old one.

Oliver Goldsmith

 

I never remain passive in the process of reading: while I read I am engaged in a constant creative activity, which leads me to remember not so much the actual matter of the book as the thoughts evoked in my mind by it, directly or indirectly.

Nicholas Berdyaev                                     

Friends, books, a cheerful heart, and conscience clear

Are the most choice companions we have here.

 William Mather

My best friend is a person who will give me a book I have not read.

Abraham Lincoln

We use books like mirrors, gazing into them only to discover ourselves.

Joseph Epstein

 

A truly great book should be read in youth, again in maturity, and once more in old age.

 Robertson Davies

 It is chiefly through books that we enjoy conversation with superior minds….In the best books, great men talk to us, give us their most precious thoughts, and pour their souls into ours.

William Ellery Channing

A book is like a garden carried in the pocket.

Chinese Proverb

 Books are the compass and telescopes and sextants and charts which other people have prepared to help us navigate the dangerous seas of human life.

 Jesse Lee Bennett

 Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.  As by the one, health is preserved, strengthened, and invigorated: by the other, virtue (which is the health of the mind) is kept alive, cherished, and confirmed.

Joseph Addison

Books are the quietest and most constant friends: they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and most patient of teaches.

Charles W. Eliot

 Some books are meant to be tasted, others to be swallowed , and some few to be chewed and digested; that is, some books are to be read only in parts; others to be read but not curiously; and some few to be read wholly, and with diligence and attention.

Francis Bacon

Only three things are necessary to make life happy: the blessing of God, books , and a friend.

Lacordaire





Motivational Quotes: Resourcefulness

7 03 2010

Resourcefulness : Use what you learn!

 ”Making mental connections is our most crucial learning tool, the essence of human intelligence; to forge links; to go beyond the given; to see patterns, relationships, context.”
Marilyn Ferguson

We do not learn from our experiences; we learn by reflecting on our experiences.”
John Dewey

“The purpose of a course on thinking is to enhance student’s abilities to face new challenges and to attack novel problems confidently, rationally and productively.”
Marilyn J. Adams

“We often discover what will do, by finding out what will not do; and probably he who never made a mistake never made a discovery.”
Samuel Smiles

“We learn the ropes of life by untying its knots.”
Jean Toomer

“Learning is the ability to make sense out of something you observe based on your past experience and being able to take that observations and associate it with meaning.”
Ruth and Art Winter

“I’ve never made a mistake. I’ve only learned from experience.”
Thomas A. Edison

“Notice the difference between what happens when a man says to himself, ‘I have failed three times,’ and what happens when he says, ‘I’m a failure.’”
S. I. Hayakawa
 
“A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”
George Bernard Shaw

“It is necessary for us to learn from others’ mistakes. You will not live long enough to make them all yourself.”
Hyman Rickover

 ”The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.”
Bishop W. C. Magee

“There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, learning from failure.”
Colin Powell

“Look back to learn how to look forward.”
Joe Girard

“Life can be real rough . . . you can either learn from your problems, or keep repeating them over and over.”
Marie Osmond

“When I want to understand what is happening today or try to decide what will happen tomorrow, I look back.”
Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.

“Life must be understood backwards. But it must be lived forward.”
Soren Kierkegaard

“What I’ve been doing in practice will carry over into the game.”
Randall Cunningham, Professional Football Player

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”
Albert Einstein

“Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely.”
Auguste Rodin

“Education is knowing where to go to find out what you need to know; and it’s knowing how to use the information you get.”
William Feather, Author and Publisher
 
“Mistakes are the usual bridge between inexperience and wisdom.”
Phyllis Theroux

“What looks like a loss may be the very event which is subsequently responsible for helping to produce the major achievement of your life.”
Srully D. Blotnick





Motivational Quotes: Passion and Wonder

17 02 2010

Passionate:   Responding With Wonderment and Awe

 The most beautiful experience in the world is the experience of the mysterious. He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead; his eyes are closed.”  Albert Einstein

“Practice being excited.”
Bill Foster

“Nothing great in the world has been accomplished without passion.”
George Hegel

“Your work is to discover your work, and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.”              Buddha

“I would rather live in a world where my life is surrounded by mystery than live in a world so small that my mind could comprehend it.”
Harry Emerson Fosdick

“You only lose energy when life becomes dull in your mind. Your mind gets bored and therefore tired of doing nothing . . . . Get interested in something! Get absolutely enthralled in something! Get out of yourself! Be somebody! Do something . . The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about.”
Charles Kingsley

“People do their best work when they are passionately engaged in what they are doing.”  Erie S. Raymond

“There is real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“Wonder rather than doubt is the root of knowledge.”
Abraham Joshua Heschel

“Once you do something you love, you never have to work again.”
Willie Hill, student

“Follow your bliss. Find where it is and don’t be afraid to follow it.”
Joseph Campbell

“All thinking begins with wondering”
Socrates

“I would sooner live in a cottage and wonder at everything than live in a castle and wonder at nothing!”   Joan Winmill Brown,

“We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration. Inspiration seldom generates action.”
Frank Tibolt, Author

“I want to be excited, thrilled, and ecstatic about all sorts of things as long as I live.”
Win Couchman, Writer and Speaker

“One thing life has taught me: If you are interested, you never have to look for new interests. They come to you. When you are genuinely interested in one thing, it will always lead to something else.”
Eleanor Roosevelt

“Wonder is what sets us apart from other life forms. No other species wonders about the meaning of existence or the complexity of the universe or themselves.”
Herbert W. Boyer

Passion always brings a difficulty, that is true, but the good side of it is that it gives energy.        Vincent Van Gogh

I think that nothing awakens us to the reality of life so much as a true passion.

Vincent Van Gogh





Math Positive Affirmations

16 02 2010

Math Positudes (Positive affirmations)

 I’m becoming a good math student.

 I’m learning more math each day.

 I’m capable of learning math.

 I have good abilities in math.

 I am relaxed, calm, alert, and confident in math.

 My math improves every day.

 I can understand math if I give myself a chance.

 I like math because it’s useful in everyday life.

 Working out math problems is fun.

 Math is more and more exciting each day.

 Math is creative.

 Math is stimulating.

 Math helps me to get to where I want to go.

 Math methods help me solve everyday problems.

 Act as if it were impossible to fail.

 The more you learn, the easier it gets.

Luck is often disguised as hard work.

 If you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.

 Success is a journey, not a destination.

 Inch by inch, it’s a cinch.

 Failure is a success if you learn from it.

 Get an education in school and you’ll have it for life.

 If you play victim, you give up your power to change.

 You’re as happy as you make up your mind to be.

 Your greatest advantage is your ability to learn.

 I choose to respond positively, NOT react.

 Learning is a big part of my life.

 Be bigger than your problems.

 I succeed by asking questions.

 The difference between ordinary & extraordinary is the little “extra.”






Motivational Quotes: Inquisitiveness

16 02 2010

You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions.”
Naguib Mahfouz (Nobel Prize Winner)

“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.”
Voltaire

“Nothing shapes our journey through life so much as the questions we ask.”
Greg Levoy

“It is better to ask some of the questions than to know all the answers.”
James Thurber

“The important thing is to not stop questioning.”
Albert Einstein

“A generous and elevated mind is distinguished by nothing more certainly than an eminent degree of curiosity.”
Samuel Johnson

“The formulation of a problem is often more essential than its solution, which may be merely a matter of mathematical or experimental skill. To raise new questions, new possibilities, to regard old problems from a new angle, requires creative imagination and marks real advances.”
Albert Einstein

“If you find a good solution and become attached to it, the solution may become your next problem.”
Dr. Robert Anthony

“Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.”
Anthony Robbins

“Curiosity is one of the permanent and certain characteristics of a vigorous mind.”
Samuel Johnson
“It’s not the answers that enlighten us, but the questions.”
Descouvertes

He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever.
Chinese proverb

“If we would have new knowledge, we must get a whole world of new questions.”
Suzanne Langer

“If you spend more time asking appropriate questions rather than giving answers or opinions, your listening skills will increase.”
Brian Koslow

“Millions saw apples fall, but Newton asked why.”
Bernard Baruch

“Good questions outrank easy answers.”
Paul A. Samuelson

“Philosophy may be defined as the art of asking the right question…awareness of the problem outlives all solutions. The answers are questions in disguise, every new answer giving rise to new questions.”
Abraham J. Heschel

He who is ashamed of asking is ashamed of learning.
Danish Proverb
 
“The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.”
Ellen Parr

“The one real object of education is to have a man in the condition of continually asking questions.”
Bishop Mandell Creighton

“I have no special gift. I am only passionately curious.”
Albert Einstein





Motivational Quotes: Courage

16 02 2010

Courageous: Taking Responsible Risks

“Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”
Kobi Yamada

“There is a time for daring and a time for caution, and a wise man knows which is called for.”
John Keating, Teacher in Dead Poet’s Society

“The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
 
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

“The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little past them into the impossible.”
Arthur Clarke

“We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing our hopes.”
John F. Kennedy

“Don’t be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps.”
David Lloyd George

“The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear.”
William Jennings Bryan

Undertake something that is difficult; it will do you good. Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered,   you will never grow.”
Ronald Osborn

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.”
Elbert Hubbard

One must work and dare if one really wants to live                                      Vincent VanGogh
Do not fear risk. All exploration, all growth is calculated. Without challenge people cannot reach their higher selves. Only if we are willing to walk over the edge can we become winners.”
The families of the Challenger Space Shuttle Crew
“It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.”
Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“Looking back on my life, I wish I’d stepped forward and made a fool of myself more often when I was younger—because when you do, you find out you can do it.”
William Sessions, Former FBI Director

Only when we accept full responsibility for our lives will we have the confidence and courage to risk.”
Stacy Allison, first American woman to climb Mt. Everest

“I want to work with the top people, because only they have the courage and the confidence and the risk-seeking profile that you need.”
Laurel Cutler

“You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
Wayne Gretzky

Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?”                             Frank Scully

Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”
Robert F. Kennedy

“Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.”
Anonymous

“Do one thing everyday that scares you.”
Eleanor Roosevelt

What would life  be if we had no  courage to  attempt  anything?   Vincent VanGogh





Motivation and Creativity

15 02 2010

Here are some wonderful excerpts from Creativity: Flow and the Psychology of Discovery and Invention by Mihaly Csikszentmaihalyi concerning motivation and creativity.

 The first step toward a more creative life is the cultivation of curiosity and interest, that is, the allocation of attention to things for their own sake.  With age most of us lose the sense of wonder, the felling of awe in confronting the majesty and variety of the world, yet without awe life becomes routine, creative individual are childlike in that their curiosity remains fresh even at ninety years of age; they delight in the strange and the unknown. (346)

  So how can interest and curiosity be cultivated, assuming that you feel the desire to do so? Some specific advice may help.

–Try to be surprised by something every day.  It could be something you see, hear, or read about.  Stop to look at the unusual car parked a the curb, taste the new item on the cafeteria menu, actually listen to your colleague at the office……Life is nothing more than a stream of experience-the more widely and deeply you swim in it, the richer your life will be.

- Try to surprise at least one person every day.  Instead of being you predictable self, say something unexpected, express an opinion that you have not dared to reveal, ask a question you wouldn’t ordinarily ask.

 -Write down each day what surprised you and you surprised others.  Writing them down so that you can relive them in recollection is one way to keep them from disappearing, and after a few weeks, you may begin to see a pattern of interest emerging in the notes, one that may indicate some domain that would repay explore in depth. (347)

-When something strikes a spark of interest, follow it.

-Wake up in the morning with a specific goal to look forward to.  Creative individuals don’t have to be dragged out of bed: they are eager to start the day.  (349)

 -If you do anything well, it becomes enjoyable……the quality of experience tends to improve in proportion to the effort invested in it.

- To keep enjoying something, you need to increase its complexity. (350)

 -After creative energy is awakened, it is necessary to protect it, We must erect barriers against distractions, dig channels so that every can flow more freely, find ways to escape outside temptations and interruptions, If we do not, entropy is sure to break down the concentration that the pursuit of an interest requires. (351)

 -Take charge of your schedule.

-Make time for reflection and relaxation.

 -Shape your space.  The kind of objects you fill your space with also either help or hinder the allocation of creative energies.  Cherished objects remind us of our goals, make us feel more confident, and focus our attention.  Trophies, diplomas, favorite books, and family pictures on the office desk are all reminders of who you are, what you have accomplished, and therefore what you are likely to achieve, Pictures and maps of places you would like to visit and books about things you might like to learn more about are signposts of what you might do in the future (356)

 -Find out what you like and what you hate about life. Creative people are in very close touch with their emotions. (356)

 -Start doing more of what you love, less of what you hate. (357)

-The only way to stay creative is to oppose the wear and tear of existence with techniques that organize time, space, and activity to your advantage.  It means developing schedules to protect your time and avoid distraction, arranging your surroundings to heighten concentration, cutting out meaningless chores that soak up psychic energy, and devoting the energy thus saved to what you really care about.  It is much easier to be personally creative when you maximize optimal experience in everyday life.  (358)

 -When we live creatively, boredom is banished and every moment holds the promise of a fresh discovery. (344)

 -I am assuming that each person has, potentially, all the psychic energy he or she needs to lead a creative life, However, the are four major sets of obstacles that prevent many from expressing this potential. Some of us are exhausted by too many demands, and so have trouble getting hold of and activating our psychic energy in the fist place, Or we get easily distracted and have trouble learning how to protect and channel whatever energy we have, the next problem is laziness, or lacking discipline for controlling the flow of energy.  And finally, the last obstacle is not knowing what to do with the energy one has. (344)

- In terms of using mental energy creativity. Perhaps the most fundamental difference between people consists in how much uncommitted attention they have left over to deal with novelty.  In too many cases, attention is restricted by external necessity, we cannot expect a man who works two jobs, or a working woman with children, to have much mental energy left over to learn a domain, let alone innovate in it, ….the fact is that there are real limits to how many things a person can attend to at the same time, and when survival needs require all of one=s attention, none is left over for being creative.  (345)

 -Look at problems from as many viewpoints as possible.  Creative individuals do not rush to define the nature of problems: they look at the situation from various angles first and leave the formulation undetermined for a ling time, they consider different causes and reasons, They test their hunches about what really is going on, first in their own mid and then in reality, they try tentative solutions and check their success-and they are open to reformulating the problem if the evident suggests they started out on the wrong path. (365)





Persistance: Motivational quotes

29 01 2010

Persistent: Stick to it!

 Persevering in a task through to its completion

Remaining focused.

Not giving up

Looking for ways to reach your goal when stuck.

Be like a postage stamp—stick to one thing until you get there.”    Margaret Carty
 
“Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing.”                                                                                                                                           Abraham Lincoln

“Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul.”
Douglas MacArthur

“ I had to select one quality, one personal characteristic that I regard as being most highly correlated with success whatever the field, I would pick the trait of persistence.
Richard M. Devos

“Persistence is the twin sister of excellence. One is a matter of quality; the other, a matter of  time.”                                                                                                                                     Marabel Morgan

“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
Dale Carnegie

“When we accept tough jobs as a challenge to our ability and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen.”   

Arland Gilbert

“Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity. “
Louis Pasteur

“Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.”
David Bly

“Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
Michael Jordan

“Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent.”
Marlene Savant

“I think there are two keys to being creatively productive. One is not being daunted by one’s fear of failure. The second is sheer perseverance.”                                                                                                         Mary-Claire King

“Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did.”                                                                                                                                                            Newt Gingrich

“I think and think for months and years. Ninety-nine times the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right.”                               Albert Einstein

 ”Great works are performed not by strength, but by perseverance.”    Samuel Johnson

 ”It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”  Albert Einstein

“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.”

Arnold Schwarzenegger

“Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence and determination.”
Calvin Coolidge
 ”You don’t win an Olympic gold medal with a few weeks of intensive training.”
Seth Godin

Fall seven times, stand up eight.

Japanese Proverb








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