This game involves forcing the participants in making a choice when neither one is attractive or involves some metaphorical interpretation. The object is to put the participants on the horns of a dilemma or between a rock and a hard place. Participants are pushed to not say “neither one” or to interpret the choice so that one would include the other so as to soften the dilemma. The object is to struggle with an either/or choice. The leader gives the choices to each participant and they must defend their choice with three good reasons. Here are two types of game play:
Would you rather….? (Examples)
Would you rather be rich or famous?
Would you rather ride a roller coaster or a mechanical bull?
Would you rather have the power to fly or the power to disappear?
Would you rather be a baby again or seventy years old?
Would you rather be gossiped about or lied to?
Would you rather have a life of good memories or a life full of exciting
adventures you couldn’t remember?
Would you rather have no values or have no friends?
Would you rather try everything and succeed at nothing or try only one thing and succeed?
Would you rather be convicted of something you didn’t do or see someone else convicted for something you did?
Would you rather do a job well and be grossly underpaid or do a job poorly and be paid so much it feels like stealing?
Would you rather see every movie in slow motion or at double speed?
Would you rather be really smart and really boring or really dumb and entertaining?
Would you rather have the theme song of your choice play whenever you walk or have your own mood lighting wherever you are?
Would you rather have a nose that glows red when you get excited or have steam come out of your ears when you get mad?
Would you rather be stranded on a deserted island or live your life in a bubble?
Would you rather go back in time and give your younger self advice that will change your life or go into the future and find out what you will encounter in years to come?
Would you rather always look tremendous but say the wrong thing to everyone you meet or always say the right thing but look terrible?
Would you rather have everything you say and do revealed publicly or live in total obscurity like a hermit?
Would you rather lose your ability to speak or move for one year?
Would you rather know all but be bitter or know nothing and be optimistic?
Would you rather always succumb to peer pressure or have no one ever like you?